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ya I do need to stop wearing this cologne. The last chick I was interested in said she liked it, so I bought it. I normally don't buy expensive cologne. think it costed like $80.

The real question is can loners have girlfriends? I was under the impression they don't go together. I mentioned this to my brother last chrismtas, and he says he's kind of a loner but he's married, just have to find the right girl who understands you. Is this true? He's not nearly as much of a loner as me though. I kinda do want this girl, but I also like not being nagged or having to deal with women's problems. And women seem to have alot of problems. I'll never figure out why they can't manage their lives. Life seems pretty simple to me. She's mexican btw. And has a 15 year old daughter. I really don't know much more than that though. I'm pretty busy at work and don't have much time to talk

could be she's just affectionate. I saw her touching a female coworker, and I thought maybe this is the case, and she isn't interested in me after all. She's only touched me on the shoulders and neck (given me a little massage yesterday). and sometimes puts her arm around me briefly (lower back area). So I'm not sure if that means anything. I only hugged her on her birthday, and I also put my arm around her briefly today just to show I might be interested. I figure if she did the same to me, I should be able to do the same to her. But I'm one of those guys who take sexual harrassment videos seriously, and have avoided touching women for the most part (aside from a couple christmas hugs).

well time will tell. If she wants me, she knows where to find me. I have no intention of asking her out. She's forward enough that she can ask me out if she wants me. She definately doesn't seem shy (like I am). I can go either way. I'm happy being alone, but I feel like I might be happy with her as well.