[Virosponna]

Little does she know I'm still single because I'm a loser. I may be good at everything else in life, but my lack of skill in the romance department makes me a loser.

I refuse to accept that defetist attitude, I at one point in my life believed the same thing for myself. I spent a few months studying psychology, socialisingm and forcing myself into uncomfortable situations each a horror but each a learning experience. Untill finally I started to see results.

What one man can do another can do!

I know that to be true. How do I know my succes wasn't a freak event? I know because I have a new hot girlfriend. I went from a self-diagnosed love shy who hadn't even kissed a girl to an average Joe eager to improve untill now I am the one who is in demand. I now say no far more often than yes you can not imagine how this has improved every aspect of my life. Before I tought to myself 'I don't really need a woman. I can be happy alone.' I was wrong, I was rationalizing, I was continuing my learned helpless behaviour. You don't want to be a looser? Well stop being one! You have a brain designed to solve problems by millions of years of evolution, use it!