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**dubGucKcolo** · 01-09-2012, 11:04 PM

Hello Fee,

Speech has been an issue for me too. Experience has made me reflect about this:

Most of the time, people wants be be heard... hear without giving advice or making judgements around can be relieving.

But when an advice is asked, it is better to make clear that is just our very personal opinion trying to make it as an open suggestion and not as an absolute statement. To reflect over the given opinion, can be helpful.

If it is about a needed discussion or a debate it is better not to make personal remarks as "you have said such and such" or "you are such and such". That only harms the aim of an insightful debate.

During a debate, it is always better to keep it focused in hard and tangible facts, than in people traits, believes or assumptions.

Maybe this can bring better results Fee...

01-09-2012, 11:04 PM	#4
dubGucKcolo Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 503 Senior Member	Hello Fee, Speech has been an issue for me too. Experience has made me reflect about this: Most of the time, people wants be be heard... hear without giving advice or making judgements around can be relieving. But when an advice is asked, it is better to make clear that is just our very personal opinion trying to make it as an open suggestion and not as an absolute statement. To reflect over the given opinion, can be helpful. If it is about a needed discussion or a debate it is better not to make personal remarks as "you have said such and such" or "you are such and such". That only harms the aim of an insightful debate. During a debate, it is always better to keep it focused in hard and tangible facts, than in people traits, believes or assumptions. Maybe this can bring better results Fee...
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