[Rugda]

How can I let them stray in the wrong direction while I am finding peace and wholeness and comfort?

As peace, wholeness and comfort is developing, then will come a sort of tranquil acceptance of the fact that your family has a different practice.

It seems that we all have families and relatives and loved ones that do not want to practice Buddhism and we have to deal with that.

Maybe, with some time, your pace and comfort will permeate the loved ones bringing them peace and comfort, too.