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It's interesting to know that others have challenges as well. Thanks to all that have taken the time to read and respond in this thread. It's greatly appreciated!

Thanks for asking Ratikala - she does not share in any of my beliefs, pre or post my interest in Buddhism. When we got married we both were from Christian families but we were never church goers. My side of the family are fundamentalist Christians and would probably be horrified to learn about my interest in Buddhism.

She speaks to my family more than me. She's very outgoing and friendly and I am fairly quiet and introverted. The only common interest we have is our daughter (actually my step daughter but raised like my own) and our animals. We both have a deep love for animals. That is our biggest common denominator. We have a lot of rescued animals; cats, dogs and birds and they really occupy much of our time and attention, especially my wife's time since she doesn’t work. We don’t really share any spiritual interests or beliefs.

I stopped believing in Christianity many years ago. She claims to be Christian even though she doesn’t read the bible or go to church, yet she's hinted (by things said) that she might believe in reincarnation and karma to some slight degree, although not knowing anything about Buddhism. I think she's afraid if she (maybe for me too) moves away from Christianity and are wrong then we could be punished in hell when we die.

Hope this additional info helps. I am totally open to advice and criticism.

With gratitude and appreciation,
Cal