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**Lunims** · 09-30-2011, 02:50 PM

Hi Murchovski and Element, nice to be conversing with you again :-)

The " rock and a hard place " seems to come about mostly in my experiences when ideas of wanting to please, support or in some way assist another are allowed to be a strong motivator .... as an example, recently I was told by a friend that they were " damned if they did, damned if they didn't" in regards to me and how difficult it was for them - I was quite astonished that they were struggling so, as it was clear to me that the current situation meant that there was no way they were going to be able to please me - lol, and I was not wanting them to in any way. Telling them this was helpful we found.

09-30-2011, 02:50 PM	#3
Lunims Join Date Nov 2005 Location CA Posts 601 Senior Member	Hi Murchovski and Element, nice to be conversing with you again :-) The " rock and a hard place " seems to come about mostly in my experiences when ideas of wanting to please, support or in some way assist another are allowed to be a strong motivator .... as an example, recently I was told by a friend that they were " damned if they did, damned if they didn't" in regards to me and how difficult it was for them - I was quite astonished that they were struggling so, as it was clear to me that the current situation meant that there was no way they were going to be able to please me - lol, and I was not wanting them to in any way. Telling them this was helpful we found.
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