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thanks Traveller

what i am about to say may not be true, but your post possibly offers examples of both conditioned doubt and underlying doubt

regarding conditioned doubt, arguing with your GF may condition doubt & worry because arguing is something that can possibly harm the relationship. your mind, unconsciously/intuitively, may generate doubt towards the relationship

regarding underlying doubt, going to the Vihara may result in meditation deeper than usual. so underlying doubt may arise as a purification symptom

so, regarding your GF, without knowing the circumstances, doubt may be reduced if you apologise to her & heal the disagreement

kindest regards