[exettybele]

Like most Tibetan sanghas, Zen ones don't charge. There's a donation basket at the door. I've never paid a dime at a Tibetan Center. I've heard very good things about some of the Chan centers, too, especially Fo Guang Shan, which has centers in Western countries, emphasizes ethics, and has many women teachers. Friends have told me they give meditation instruction and really focus on the individual and each person's unique qualities and situation. Hopefully, Compassus Sum's area has a selection of centers.

I always advise people to check out the centers, try them a few times to see where you're most comfortable. Check out the teacher, and check out the sangha, the vibe there. Some sanghas behave more like a celebrity "groupie" club, and believe their teacher can do no wrong. That's not a good sign. Test the waters in more than one center, if you have the option. Good luck, Compassus.