Why ask a question so it innocently if you already think you know the anwser and will react in a hostile manner to someone who anser in a manner other than what you expected? It's Ramadan perhaps the real question to be asking is "Am i a real muslim and why am i starting a thread that would likely lead to backbiting of fellow muslims? Are my fasts or the fasts of the other members of this forum really that cheap?" Backbiting is backbiting whether in Ramadan or not, but in Ramadan we should be especially vigilant not to waste too much time in useless things.