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**CoallyPax** · 08-13-2012, 08:13 AM

Brother, I think you have never seen a woman in your life, if your comment is what you think. Yes the Hijab is a loose garment, which covers. But to put the blame on the woman AT ALL for the 2nd situation is a bit extreme to say the least. If a women wears a loose garment, covers her hair... that is enough... based on logic. Maybe you have ultra levels of testosterone and find even a toe being shown a bit too much, but to blame women for your weakness is strange.

It reminds me of those "scholars" who blame the women who is raped for wearing a hijab but with jeans , that she "was asking for it". Yes if the woman is openly walking around half exposed and guys treat her like a piece of meat that is partly her fault too, but when there is a Muslim sister who is covered, to blame even a tiny bit on her is a problem with your weakness. May Allah help the brothers who are extremely weak.

Might I just add that women are just as attracted to the male face in the same way men are attracted to ours? Perhaps men should wear niqab too

Like when I meet my husband MarShAllah the first thing I was attracted too was his face and eyes.
I agree to covering the body etc but the face? It's important for human communication, identification and understanding. Like for example today I was walking around town and smiled at another muslimah she smiled back and we exchanged salams. A face covering is too much seclusion. Ive been wearing hijab for 2 months now and and notice that men do not look at me no more, thus my face alone is not attracting unwanted attention. I wear hijab and jilbab it's loose etc. The facial expression tells so much that words cannot. A smile from one muslimah to another could be the start of a friendship.

Allah knows best.

08-13-2012, 08:13 AM	#18
CoallyPax Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 357 Senior Member	Brother, I think you have never seen a woman in your life, if your comment is what you think. Yes the Hijab is a loose garment, which covers. But to put the blame on the woman AT ALL for the 2nd situation is a bit extreme to say the least. If a women wears a loose garment, covers her hair... that is enough... based on logic. Maybe you have ultra levels of testosterone and find even a toe being shown a bit too much, but to blame women for your weakness is strange. It reminds me of those "scholars" who blame the women who is raped for wearing a hijab but with jeans , that she "was asking for it". Yes if the woman is openly walking around half exposed and guys treat her like a piece of meat that is partly her fault too, but when there is a Muslim sister who is covered, to blame even a tiny bit on her is a problem with your weakness. May Allah help the brothers who are extremely weak. Might I just add that women are just as attracted to the male face in the same way men are attracted to ours? Perhaps men should wear niqab too Like when I meet my husband MarShAllah the first thing I was attracted too was his face and eyes. I agree to covering the body etc but the face? It's important for human communication, identification and understanding. Like for example today I was walking around town and smiled at another muslimah she smiled back and we exchanged salams. A face covering is too much seclusion. Ive been wearing hijab for 2 months now and and notice that men do not look at me no more, thus my face alone is not attracting unwanted attention. I wear hijab and jilbab it's loose etc. The facial expression tells so much that words cannot. A smile from one muslimah to another could be the start of a friendship. Allah knows best.
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