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**Alkassyinhisk** · 08-14-2012, 01:29 AM

Just heard this in a bayan here:
http://www.tasawwuf.org/audio/itikaf_urdu.htm

1) Keep the gaze lowered (do not look at the opposite sex that you are not married to). Even if you unintentionally sin it creates darkness and distance in your heart. For example you speak to a woman that you consider your daughter who is old enough for you to marry...then it is a sin. Give up feeling greedy for the world and the things that are within it. The Internet and the cell phone are very dangerous and will take many people to Hell.

2) Do not lie at all and keep a check on yourself. and do not backbite...if in a gathering where others are doing it, tell them to stop, or defend the person being talked about, or get up and walk away.

3) Keep your thoughts clean, do not fantasise about the opposite sex.

4) Watch what you eat and put in your stomach if it is haram (based on riba, stolen money or anything like that as well as haram ingredients it will ruin your spirituality).

08-14-2012, 01:29 AM	#1
Alkassyinhisk Join Date Oct 2005 Location Thailand Posts 459 Senior Member	Fantasysing is haram Just heard this in a bayan here: http://www.tasawwuf.org/audio/itikaf_urdu.htm 1) Keep the gaze lowered (do not look at the opposite sex that you are not married to). Even if you unintentionally sin it creates darkness and distance in your heart. For example you speak to a woman that you consider your daughter who is old enough for you to marry...then it is a sin. Give up feeling greedy for the world and the things that are within it. The Internet and the cell phone are very dangerous and will take many people to Hell. 2) Do not lie at all and keep a check on yourself. and do not backbite...if in a gathering where others are doing it, tell them to stop, or defend the person being talked about, or get up and walk away. 3) Keep your thoughts clean, do not fantasise about the opposite sex. 4) Watch what you eat and put in your stomach if it is haram (based on riba, stolen money or anything like that as well as haram ingredients it will ruin your spirituality).
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