Here in N America its not just a salfi thing - its a Muslim problem Many converts cant aford to get married due to high mahr prices and racism amongst Arabs and SE asians Many converts are not salafi by choice - its the only form of Islam they have aver known - we have TONS of salafis here So, the only route many Muslims have to fulfill their nafs is to get with kafir girls - and while this is not the way it should be done - in many of these cases, these girls end up becoming Muslim, which is a good thing.