The deviant psudo fake sufis shaikh need beating. If it was up to me, I would give them such a beating, they would not even the utter sufi word in their mouth becuas they would be drinking from straw. They fool people naieve impressionable people. I think it is Imam Junaid bagdadi who saied something to the effect 'there is no tasawuf without shariah'. As for your parents, simply gently to your mother and give her some easy to read books that put emphaisis on salat. As for your future, keep praying nawafil salaat and pray that Allah grants you a husbend who is good for you, your deen and iman and be steadfast in it. We can't see future so only hope in Allah. I would advise try to find a scholarly circle and join them. It is not recommended that you keep aloof in such situation. Keep away from berlewi (I never though I would say this!) but your situaiton seems to call for it and join TJ or any other reputable organisation that will benefit you spiritually. We are not gurdian over others faith. So focus on yourself and be consistent in your serach. Allahualam