[OlegSan]

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Bro do you think this is the right circumstance for such an argument ?

No, I don't. It's actually quite sad that I instigated this, in this thread. I guess I was a little irked over people insisting that it's our responsibility in the same way and to the same extent if it really were *our* mothers and daughters. Everything I've seen, and every example around me shows that it is not the same thing - so why the guilt?

Its not a sin for a Muslims to feel bad that he can't do extra help for other Muslims.

Sure, in the same way we can feel bad for not performing extra deeds like tahajjud? You're right.

This thread is about a sister who was oppressed in one of the worst ways possible and we are here arguing??

I just read thru the posts .. I think I'm the only person who actually advised the brother to *do* something that is practical for him: Dua from the heart, and if you can - sacrificing your wealth.

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