Is it real, yes. Tawajjo can be done and wajd happens also. Tawajjo is more refined strong power of thought you can say. Tawajjo is something a person develops like how you do exercises to develop strength in your arms, same way you develop strength in power of thought. Wajd, the example is like how some people hear music and cant help but dance, in the same way is wajd. Wajd just comes over someone. It has to be goverened by shariah, person cant be doing something haraam and say it is wajd, it doesnt excuse him unless truly he is mentally incapable to control himself and only ulama fuqaha will give ruling on this. Also, doing both things doesnt prove anything as far as nearness to Allah swt and His messenger salallahu alayhi wa sallam are concerned. The greater tawajjo I say is that one is constantly aware of the commandments of Allah swt in every situation and upon taking every step in life. And the real wajd is in sajdah.