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**Chiquita** · 06-16-2012, 09:42 PM

I read an article recently where they stated that Muslim women were expressing similar opinions to non Muslims that they dislike nice dependable guys and were more attracted to the so called 'bad boys', because of the excitement they might provide?

There has been an increase in the population of Nice Guys in the west in the past few decades, they tend to be nerdy and not very social and they are 'feminised' in some ways because they lack masculine type qualities of strength, confidence, independence etc. And women are put off by them, they prefer the Bad Boy who might show some confidence and is challenging.

How would a woman not be put off by a "feminized" man? That's a good thing. The opposite of feminine man is not gangster, drug dealer.

Secondly, if a woman is going around looking at the men on her own and deciding who is a "nice boy" and who is a "bad boy," then you don't want that woman anyway. So her opinion is irrelevant. Rather spend your time finding a woman who is lowering her gaze, going through the Islamic channels for finding marriage, and iA 100% of those women will have piety be the first thing they're looking for.

Finally, what kind of a useless subject to write an article about! Is there a Muslim cosmo now or something?

06-16-2012, 09:42 PM	#30
Chiquita Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 541 Senior Member	I read an article recently where they stated that Muslim women were expressing similar opinions to non Muslims that they dislike nice dependable guys and were more attracted to the so called 'bad boys', because of the excitement they might provide? There has been an increase in the population of Nice Guys in the west in the past few decades, they tend to be nerdy and not very social and they are 'feminised' in some ways because they lack masculine type qualities of strength, confidence, independence etc. And women are put off by them, they prefer the Bad Boy who might show some confidence and is challenging. How would a woman not be put off by a "feminized" man? That's a good thing. The opposite of feminine man is not gangster, drug dealer. Secondly, if a woman is going around looking at the men on her own and deciding who is a "nice boy" and who is a "bad boy," then you don't want that woman anyway. So her opinion is irrelevant. Rather spend your time finding a woman who is lowering her gaze, going through the Islamic channels for finding marriage, and iA 100% of those women will have piety be the first thing they're looking for. Finally, what kind of a useless subject to write an article about! Is there a Muslim cosmo now or something?
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