There is no need to defend anything..just wear whatever you want without having the need to go to lengths about why u wear. That was a poorly thought out defense to be honest. I for one certainly don't wish secretaries wore niqaab or waitresses ..I'm not that insecure to be honest. Only an insecure woman with a husband who has wandering eyes would wish that. I don't know about you all, but she might just be taking the mickey so to speak.