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**Peretool** · 06-30-2012, 03:59 AM

In my masjid one elder is there , he is 20 years elder to me. He is really upset with me & even sometimes try to hit me in my shoulders, press the back of my neck. But whenever he does that he smiles and plays with me as if he is 24 years old boy.

Whenever he is the Amir, he makes me to give bayan & forces me to do that; once I had a valid reason of breaking fast - he asked me to drink water and do the bayan. When I was the Amir, he will bring reasons as if he is tired and not feeling well.

He is a good guy but short tempered and very strict & doesnt reveal that outside. Anyhow, he is my muslim brother - I love him but maintain distance since getting so close to him might get me into trouble with him.

Dont get angry with him, maintain distance he would understand. Treat him like an elder, not as a friend even if think you as his friend. this will make the gap wider

06-30-2012, 03:59 AM	#8
Peretool Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 516 Senior Member	In my masjid one elder is there , he is 20 years elder to me. He is really upset with me & even sometimes try to hit me in my shoulders, press the back of my neck. But whenever he does that he smiles and plays with me as if he is 24 years old boy. Whenever he is the Amir, he makes me to give bayan & forces me to do that; once I had a valid reason of breaking fast - he asked me to drink water and do the bayan. When I was the Amir, he will bring reasons as if he is tired and not feeling well. He is a good guy but short tempered and very strict & doesnt reveal that outside. Anyhow, he is my muslim brother - I love him but maintain distance since getting so close to him might get me into trouble with him. Dont get angry with him, maintain distance he would understand. Treat him like an elder, not as a friend even if think you as his friend. this will make the gap wider
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