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Old 06-30-2012, 04:27 AM   #10
Peapeuddedbaw

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jazakAllah, brother I am keeping distance. But at times I am caught. For example after the salah or something. I just don't even wanna greet him. I know he'll do something stupid that 'll make me feel uncomfortable. He treats me as if we have been friends since ages. I want to know what right does Shariah give me here? Can i just kick him out w/o considering how he feels? Or do i have to deal with it with patience?
I am undergoing the same pressure as you.. I am 1 or 2 years elder to you & I know the pain.
See we need to maintain distance , patience is required from our side. Dont scold or think bad about him, I am a learner in jamaat. I havent spend more than 4 days of Khurooj in my life. They ask me to give bayan and after bayan on guy take classes for me pointing mistakes, they say me to give karguzaari - and this troublesome guy scolded me twice in front of everyone that I dont know how to give kaarguzaari. One he even scolded me in front of everyone in taleem majlis for correcting his english. I am in a different country where I dont even have 1 of my relation/family friend, this is really pathetic.

Better avoid those guys, maintain distance
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