[dayclaccikere]

You don't discover them. Some might occur naturally which you don't really pay attention since you do them like in a normal routine. For example it's pretty normal for you to give alms (charity) but you don't notice it as a gift since it happens so naturally. But when your spiritual father is guiding you, he might say work on your humility and gives you instructions on how to do so. Then eventually over time the gifts that Effie mentioned are part of your life and you do them. When people write about the lives of saints they will say so and so has such gifts but I don't think any saint said oh my gift is that I am so charitable or I am so kind.