[Lerpenoaneway]

it seems natho that trying to suss what's potentially different with this go-around of the situation is at times much more interesting that trying to invest in outcome. sometimes the outcome might be crazily different and more far reaching if you take the situation (which is almost always an invitation to re-visit and change a condition) and find what can be different, find the smile factor. seriously, situation's purpose may ultimately be about getting past anything which is less than acceptance of other's paths.

if you can smile somewhat in the face of the previous go-around which featured anything less, you got it, baby, and the spiral will tend upwards. mark