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**stadiaKab** · 06-02-2011, 05:26 PM

family is a very interesting dynamic

like yourself seeking it was wierd at first to become aware and not have your imediate family members there at your level. i would talk to them about things and get nothing from them. it was like they didn't care. this used to concern me because of the obvious love i have for them. i used to take it all personally as well which did not benefit anyone because it would then turn into a power struggle, and an arguement usually ensued. i came to realize that (like many of the other posters have said) every individual must find it on their own, you can't force feed people. they need to feed themselves.

like a lot of us awakened beings we've learned to live in the now, accept each and every moment, and give that moment exactly what we know that moment needs. if that is sitting listening to a parent worry about things out of their control then that's what that moment needs. just don't take it personally if it doesn't speak truth to you. that's when things can get a little hairy

love your family; tell them; show them. that's all. the ones who you have the most interaction with in your life are the ones that have the potential to teach you the most.

they will ask and recieve what they are ready to at every moment. whether they are awake or not. you might just be shocked at some of the things you learn from people when you open up to it.

06-02-2011, 05:26 PM	#36
stadiaKab Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 422 Senior Member	family is a very interesting dynamic like yourself seeking it was wierd at first to become aware and not have your imediate family members there at your level. i would talk to them about things and get nothing from them. it was like they didn't care. this used to concern me because of the obvious love i have for them. i used to take it all personally as well which did not benefit anyone because it would then turn into a power struggle, and an arguement usually ensued. i came to realize that (like many of the other posters have said) every individual must find it on their own, you can't force feed people. they need to feed themselves. like a lot of us awakened beings we've learned to live in the now, accept each and every moment, and give that moment exactly what we know that moment needs. if that is sitting listening to a parent worry about things out of their control then that's what that moment needs. just don't take it personally if it doesn't speak truth to you. that's when things can get a little hairy love your family; tell them; show them. that's all. the ones who you have the most interaction with in your life are the ones that have the potential to teach you the most. they will ask and recieve what they are ready to at every moment. whether they are awake or not. you might just be shocked at some of the things you learn from people when you open up to it.
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