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**Qncvqpgfg** · 06-09-2010, 04:20 PM

nara,

NN, Shri sangom is talking about your grand declaration in post #25, "i am all for widow re-marriage.chinna veedu set up."
Here, a widow remarrying is perfectly legal, even if not sanctioned by Brahminism. Whereas, chinna veedu is outside Hindu law as that would be considered immoral? I wonder whether chinna veedu is illegal? It may be grounds for divorce, but is it illegal?

knowing our tb's we would not do it,at least majority of us would not opt for chinna veedu.but,there are women who really do this service,i have known instances,but under the radar,out of legal purview.chinna veedu is definitely illegal as well as immoral,but then most of our gods do have two wives.as devotees we shud follow gods,or NO.atheist of course do not believe in god,so...

BTW, NN may not have meant it this way, but suggesting chinna veedu set up as a possibility is quite offensive. What the woman wants to do is her business, nobody has the right to characterize it in pejorative language. Our role is to support and respect her.

Cheers! sorry if i was offensive.i am not saying we shud indulge,but such possibilities do exist outside mainstraem minus thirumangalyam.so such relationships were zamindars domain.women are not dis-respected but then i am wondering from your viewpoint too.

06-09-2010, 04:20 PM	#35
Qncvqpgfg Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 373 Senior Member	nara, NN, Shri sangom is talking about your grand declaration in post #25, "i am all for widow re-marriage.chinna veedu set up." Here, a widow remarrying is perfectly legal, even if not sanctioned by Brahminism. Whereas, chinna veedu is outside Hindu law as that would be considered immoral? I wonder whether chinna veedu is illegal? It may be grounds for divorce, but is it illegal? knowing our tb's we would not do it,at least majority of us would not opt for chinna veedu.but,there are women who really do this service,i have known instances,but under the radar,out of legal purview.chinna veedu is definitely illegal as well as immoral,but then most of our gods do have two wives.as devotees we shud follow gods,or NO.atheist of course do not believe in god,so... BTW, NN may not have meant it this way, but suggesting chinna veedu set up as a possibility is quite offensive. What the woman wants to do is her business, nobody has the right to characterize it in pejorative language. Our role is to support and respect her. Cheers! sorry if i was offensive.i am not saying we shud indulge,but such possibilities do exist outside mainstraem minus thirumangalyam.so such relationships were zamindars domain.women are not dis-respected but then i am wondering from your viewpoint too.
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