[JTS_tv]

I've got some issues and i need a little help. Theres this girl that i like, no love with the deepest emotions my soul can produce. We dated for a time and now i've realizer that she is the one i want to spend the rest of my life with. She does something for me even just by being in the room with me that no words can express. I want nothing more in the world than to be with her, she completes me is the best way i can describe it. But we broke up and shortly after that some bastard i know came in, infact he started butting in on our relationship from the get go, and they dated for about 3 days, but he broke her heart. He acted just to see if he could do it, and cheated on her during that time. She hates him though and still likes me as a good friend, but i need her. So i'm trying to stay strong and wait to ask her out again it might happen, i dont know. But I do know that if I can't be with her than my existance is pointless and i wont want to live. I don't know what else to do, but to be paitent and be there for her. Any advice those of you with clean minds can give me would be greatly appreciated. Thank you

[slarceSelia]

I've got some issues and i need a little help. Theres this girl that i like, no love with the deepest emotions my soul can produce. We dated for a time and now i've realizer that she is the one i want to spend the rest of my life with. She does something for me even just by being in the room with me that no words can express. I want nothing more in the world than to be with her, she completes me is the best way i can describe it. But we broke up and shortly after that some bastard i know came in, infact he started butting in on our relationship from the get go, and they dated for about 3 days, but he broke her heart. He acted just to see if he could do it, and cheated on her during that time. She hates him though and still likes me as a good friend, but i need her. So i'm trying to stay strong and wait to ask her out again it might happen, i dont know. But I do know that if I can't be with her than my existance is pointless and i wont want to live. I don't know what else to do, but to be paitent and be there for her. Any advice those of you with clean minds can give me would be greatly appreciated. Thank you

you can tell her how you feel.. or you can just hold it inside and feel like crap for longest time. i would say, just let her know how you feel and see how that works out. if she doesn't feel the same way about you.. hell.. there are ton of girls out there.

pete

[movlabs]

Unless you can magically change what made you break up in the first place, without actually changing who you are and she is, then just let it go. Break ups happen for a reason. The time between the break up and the ability to move on can vary and may take a long time, so it may take some time for you to let go, but if you don't accept the possibility that you shouldn't be with her, then you are going to drive yourself crazy. Just be open to the possibility that maybe it just wasn't meant to be. Don't look for a chance to start the relationship again. Move on with your life, don't fawn over her, be her friend though and help but not more than you would any other normal friend, move on and if it was meant to be then you will get back together naturally without the effort of chasing her down.

Love falls in the category of things that come to people when they are not actively looking for it. Those who chase it usually drive themselves crazy or into a depression when it doesn't answer...

[ionitiesk]

You're only 18 for C. sake. You'll get over it. So please stop being so dramatic. Love hurts, it sucks, but it's a fact of live. If you really love her, tell her. But be warned, it will change or even ruin your friendship (I'm talking from experience here). If you don't tell her, you will start to act strange and sort of jealous (and ruin your friendship). So your friendship will change anyway, you might want to chose the lesser evil and tell her. Who knows, she might feel attracted to you to (you never know unless you ask). Good luck.

[asharbiq]

You could do what I did - traded in relationships for training. Sure you got more outward bruises but they sure beat the hell out of the inward ones.

Kendo doesn't f$@& me around nearly so much as relationships did and is much more satisfying! (Unless there's a cute kendoka out there, ikkyu or higher, must be well off and good looking....)

It might feel like the world is ending but it's not. Not unless she suffocates you in your sleep or poisons your food or something. Sorry, but I tend to be rather heartless and on the "just get over it" side (not that I'm bitter at all. me? never...)

[delnisfernan]

I've got some issues and i need a little help. Theres this girl that i like, no love with the deepest emotions my soul can produce. ................Thank you

They say for every boy and girl
There's just one love in this whole world
And I know I've found mine
The heavenly touch of your embrace
Tells me no one could take your place
Ever in my heart

Young love, first love
Filled with true devotion
Young love, our love
We share with deep emotion

Just one kiss from your sweet lips
Will tell me that you love is real
And I can feel that it's true
We will vow to one another
There will never be another
Love for you or for me

Young love, first love
Filled with true devotion
Young love, our love
We share with deep emotion

You're welcome.

[Misespimb]

The poet kendoka

... or is it the kendo poet?

[jabader]

Didn't you watch Romancing the Stone? It's HOPEFUL ROMANTIC not hopeless romantic.

[djmassk]

I love you,
what else can I say,
you completed me,
and a love like that will never go away.
You are the one,
wether you know that or not,
my life I would give,
just be in your arms again.
You inspired me,
filled my heart with love,
my tears will never stop,
though you cannot see them.
They flow though me,
like the rivers great,
I cannot release them,
for the fear of causing you pain.
I don’t know what to do,
you are my reason,
my gift from God,
what ever I’ve done wouldn’t matter.
Everything I’ve done,
and everything I’d ever do,
for my love I’d give it up,
I’d give it all up for you.
All I want,
all I’ll ever need,
my everything,
I want that to be you.
And in turn,
I’ll be everything for you,
what ever you need,
what ever you want.
I’ll turn my life,
to make you happy,
I hope you understand that,
I love you.

Eclipse
Your sun shining so bright,
I can’t see,
Can’t see the eclipse coming,
To blot out the light.
Moon over sun,
Holy halo is all I see,
The bright shadow,
Of your love.

Timemoves and moon as well,
Bring back the full light,
And bring on the rain,
Rain to heal my wounds.
Wounds made from piercing shadow,
Through my heart they went,
Bringing me close to death,
My pleas you would not hear.
Now let the sun come,
Let fall the rain,
And our love grow,
To a wonderful rose.

These are 2 of several poems I've wrote for her although she hasn't seen these 2, I've told her all that but I stopped talking about it so that i didn't end up pushing her away. I'll just be paitent and hope that later on it will work out. So thanks I really appreciate it. And even if there are other fish in the sea as they say i dont want any other. But thanks

[Breeriacoirl]

I've got some issues and i need a little help. Theres this girl that i like, no love with the deepest emotions my soul can produce. We dated for a time and now i've realizer that she is the one i want to spend the rest of my life with. She does something for me even just by being in the room with me that no words can express. I want nothing more in the world than to be with her, she completes me is the best way i can describe it. But we broke up and shortly after that some bastard i know came in, infact he started butting in on our relationship from the get go, and they dated for about 3 days, but he broke her heart. He acted just to see if he could do it, and cheated on her during that time. She hates him though and still likes me as a good friend, but i need her. So i'm trying to stay strong and wait to ask her out again it might happen, i dont know. But I do know that if I can't be with her than my existance is pointless and i wont want to live. I don't know what else to do, but to be paitent and be there for her. Any advice those of you with clean minds can give me would be greatly appreciated. Thank you

i say....drop it boy...what she did is a clear sign that she does not love you dearly...its all in human action...my great uncle aristotle once said that human actions have one or more of these seven causes, chance ( youve got none anymore!)...nature ( its what they are...women), compulsion ( well you know what i mean), habit, reason.( THATS WHY SHE DUMPED YOU) PASSION..( PROBABLY YOUVE LOST IT) AND desire..which she had for the other guy...so..go home drink a beer and forget about it.

[Ephedrine]

I love you,
.............................. But thanks

My poem was blatantly stolen from a Blast from the past of Tab Hunter. I thought very appropriate. How was I to know which floodgates it would open? It's a shame you're not practicing Kendo now because some vigorous practice is what the Doctor prescribes here.
Stop posting your poetry because I get all queezy inside when I read it.

[traithJah]

My poem was blatantly stolen from a Blast from the past of Tab Hunter. I thought very appropriate. . . .

Yo Fonz, hate to bust yer bubble but Tab Hunter is gay.

[VyacheslaV]

Hey, first love sometimes is the deepest.

There is some reason why you guys broken off on the first one. Find out what is it and go from there. You soon will find out if that something can be changed for good or not.

P.S. I hope she is not your Sensei's Daughter.

[xanaxonlinexanax]

Yo Fonz, hate to bust yer bubble but Tab Hunter is gay.

Please say it isn't so. Tell me you're just kiddin' right? My world is falling apart. My bubble has been burst right this minute. Next thing you tell me that Rock Hudson is also one of them?
Oh what am I to do? This can't be right. There must be some mistake here.....
The agony of it all................................

[PypeMaypetasy]

I've got some issues and i need a little help blah blah blah tl;dr

I've been in that situation before. All I can tell you is get over this melodramatic junior high bullsh*t. I have no sympathy for this crap.

[bUqLfXRI]

Relax Wes. The poor kid is in love. Can't remember how it felt when you where young?

My advise, again: Tell her, date her, get dumped, get drunk, get laid, wake up the next day. Works for me, should work for you. If she doesn't want to date you, skip the date and dump part and just get drunk..... Oh I forgot, you live in the states. You have to be 21 to be allowed to drink (suckers ).

Serious, it was a nice tread until the poetry started. Go out with your friends and have some fun, forget the lady, you'll get over it. Trust me, we've all been there and we all got over it.

[Rwujnezq]

Serious, it was a nice tread until the poetry started. .

Whose poetry are you thinking about here? Mine or his? Remember you're still on probation for the Coalition.

[TopcigsCOM]

Remember you're still on probation for the Coalition.

As if that's ever gonna change

[Aqgkvwzm]

This thread is doomed!

[Ambrakam]

For starters, you spelled hopeless wrong.
Second, if you both broke up after some dude appeared on the scene, there's nothing that's going to prevent that from happening again.
Lastly, those are really nice poems...



















...for me to poop on.