My Relationship Advice Thread
 

Ok well i am here if you have any relationship issues or questions i am very reliable and have helped people on here before . So im ready to give advice. I am a teen so i have experienced break ups and issues so i can help

People I Have Helped
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Rin

Im quite fat. will girls still like me? how did you deal with this problem?

thanks frind

Strue

Bump leave me alone strue

Ok strue well mabye try to do a bit more exercise and eat less fatty foods make a chart and weigh your self each week at the start but this is for relationships

Alright, maybe you can help me.
I've been in a relationship with this boy for three years.
We've had our fights but keep coming back to each other.
He told me one day that he wouldn't be with me anymore unless I told him I cheated on him.
So I told him.
It was a lie.

Now, things aren't the same between us.
He doesn't care what I do and who I do it with.
I don't feel like the relationship is going anywhere anymore.

What is the best way to break up with him?

Oh fine, just ignore my Advice thread.

Well ask him why he doesn't care because it seams that break up will be easy if he doesn't care

---------- Post added May 13th, 2010 at 08:35 PM ----------

[quote]Oh fine, just ignore my Advice thread.

The God of death...is giving relationship advice! That's new...

Well after i spoke to rin and helped her i thought i would give it a go

Nah, I'm just saying...Death mixes well with relationships...

Cause you didn't do that in my thread rite?

Breakup advice from a teen = bad idea. Teens don't really have relationships, just mutual lust.

Umm it doesn't matter hold old i am i have helphed people so i must being doing something right and i do know what love is please don't spam

I should start a relationship thread lmao....no.

So... still having trouble with this one today. Wondering if ya might have some advice for me.

Girl I was hanging out with (kinda think there was a little more going on there) and hopefully heading toward dating had just been dumped by her fiance. Yes, bad idea to get into a rebound relationship, I know. But, I had been completely infatuated with this girl since the first time I laid eyes on her. In the early stages of the relationship, she was still tryin to work things out with her ex fiance if possible. Don't get me wrong, I was hoping it wouldn't work out, but at the same time, I wasn't gonna get in the way if it did. Longer story short, she got pregnant while still trying to work things out with her ex fiance. Didn't take long before her ex fiance wanted less and less to do with her. I became more the central figure as she didn't hang out with any of her ex fiance's friends during this time either. So, one day she told me that I'd probably be helping her raise this baby. Now, as much as I cared about her, I honestly fell head over heals in love with that kid even though he hadn't been born yet. Unfortunately, extreme stress and other bodily factors I won't go into (for her privacy's sake), she miscarried. When she did miscarry, she found out it was a little boy. While I wasn't the biological father of this little boy, I had pretty much already adopted him in my mind. To this day, it feels like I lost a son to a miscarriage. And to this day it still hurts. That happened 10+ years ago.

Started going out with another girl a few years back. She had just gotten out of a relationship as well. I can't remember if she had been dumped or the guy had dumped her. Either way, she had gotten pregnant before we even started dating, and she honestly didn't know it until we'd be dating for a few weeks. Bad decision or not, I decided to stick with her. I liked the girl, and as above, I started to like the kid. Unfortunately, the biological father wanted absolutely NOTHING to do with her or her baby, and she didn't even want to take him to court for child support or anything. Since he wanted nothing to do with her, she wanted nothing to do with him. Well, the thought of being a single mother caused her stress to go through the roof and her blood pressure skyrocketed. Long story short, blood pressure was too high for the embryo to be able to attach to her, and she ended up miscarrying as well.

Now, neither of these children were my flesh and blood. And, I'll admit, I had invested a lot more emotion into the first than the second (mainly because the amount of time... first one took a while, second one was incredibly fast), I've essentially lost two kids to miscarriages.

Miscarriages hurt emotionally... badly... for a LONG LONG time.

Any advice?

SG

Edit: Oh and just to make sure everything is clear, the above actually did happen. I'm not making up any of it (not even the slightest detail).

Well it seams that you had bad luck but it won't always happen i admit is is weird that both girls who were pregnant that you were close with had miscarriages i want to ask why did you stop seing the first one was it cause you were upset about the loss of that baby or something else

QFE.

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W/E

ok this will sounds weird im sure but i would like some advise

just so we are clear i am married but still would like a oppinion


ok here it goes... 5 years ago i was rapped by my ex fiancee he hurt me badly in parts im not gonna mention (for privacy can pm me for full detail btw)anyways i had to end up going to the hospital for "stitches there" and to this day it still makes me cry i want to be over it but i just cant seem to completely forget about it what would you suggest that i try ?