[Qxkmsxsx]

I freaking hate that my two young children have to go through this! Its not fair. They deserve to have both parents in their lives everyday not part time. My four year old is 100% daddy's girl. I'm sad for her.My son, my lil premature miracle baby deserves to have his dad to teach him 'guy stuff' I'm sad for him. I hate taking them from the home they know. The comfort. It's not fair to them. When people cheat they're not only curring on their spouse but they are cheating the children as well.cheating them out of a life they deserve and they deserve the very best! Not only should they realize this but also the person they're cheating with. I hate this. I hate this for my children. My poor innocent babies. How did you all do it? Deal with heartbroken children?

[emuffette]

My kids are older, they knew before I did. But dealing with their anger has taken a couple of years. Go slow. You can do it. It will just take some time.

[AlexanderDrew]

A broken family is one thing, but just wait for the 'games' to begin, then you'll be really pissed.

My ex cheater manipulates the girls easily. Our 13 year old daughter lives with him now because he gives her whatever she wants, including boyfriends (which I wont allow) and from what I heard, bought her a tattoo gun recently. He bought Wife/Whoore's daughter a piercing gun and Skank Jr has a tounge piercing at 15.

It goes without saying that this wouldnt be allowed at my home. He indulges their bad behavior and promotes it.

Our littlest girl is 7 and she doesnt know about adults and their problems yet.

Our 14 year old son cannot be budged to join TEAM WHOORE, even with the threat of not buying him anything (this includes school supplies, things he needs) until he shows his cheater dad respect.

The ex and his parents have tried to bribe him with bank accounts, allowance, car for his upcoming 16th birthday. Now ex is threatening not to take him for visitation. Our son has honor and respect and I love him dearly but regret the constant hurt he goes through because he loves me and stands behind me.

[ultramDoctoo]

I feel your pain. I am terrified of my future and my kids future as a result of my wife's cheating ways. I come from divorce and I know it devastated me. I am very angry that my wife introduced the legacy of adultry in to our family. It is truly incredible how much cheating spouses just so casually can play GOD. They make decisions that will effect generations to come and most have no idea the pain they have inflicted. We have three kids under the age of nine and I just cannot believe how much worse this could get.

[Qxkmsxsx]

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[gariharlj]

This is one of the reasons it took me so long to leave. I came from a broken home and a f***ed up father and never, ever wanted that for my children. I cried, pleaded and prayed but every single time I prayed it got worse. Then I realized that THAT was my answer. No GOD doesn't want us to divorce but he doesn't want us to suffer either. Feeling like a failure, hurting for my children and wondering if I was disappointing GOD kept me going through continual pain for 12 years. My children are 4 years old and the other hasn't been born yet and yes it hurts. Every single day I look at my beautiful son and mourn him not being in a two family household anymore. But which is worse, leaving or allowing him to grow up and see the lies and dysfunction and continue that to some woman later in his life?

I left for me but mainly for my children to know true love and have positive relationships in their futures.

[Nashhlkq]

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