[BypeVupyide]

If it's okay, I just had to scoff out loud about a 'What Is Love' thread in the wayward forum on SI
about the WS who claim they love their BS *now* more than they ever did before.

It's just too bad their BS hate their WS cheating guts.

I'm just sayin, one paticularly annoying WW, who says it was her STBXBH pride and lack of trust that killed their love.

It couldn't possibly be your whoring that killed it, right?

How is he ever going to trust you again, you filthy cow?

Do these selfish animals even know what love is?

I will donate 2 tacos and a used condom to help support SI if anyone can answer this question correctly : )

[avodeinst]

Yeah I had to stay away from that place. I do tell people to go read the Healing Library though. I can't stand the justifications that others come up with.

[BypeVupyide]

lol, could true love mean staying 'faithful'?

oh wait, its his lack of trust that did it.

[T1ivuQGS]

SI has some decent stuff in the library and the forums for the newly betrayed is decent and gives some good tips re investigating.
Problem with the site, IMO, is that they are way too protective of WSs. I think they do a certain amount of enabling and allow some justifying. Some of the WS seem to just go around in circles , never really getting that they caused the majority of the problems in the marriage.

[BypeVupyide]

Right, I agree with that, but most of that information in the library was contributed by BS who are practically the salt of the earth.

I'm just saying it makes me mad to read these threads by WS and the dichotomy of everything they say, and I wouldn't pay a half eaten bananna to support that WS nonsense.

I feel really bad for that WW's STBX. She messed him over and in the end blames him for not being able to trust her... now that she knows what love is of course, apparently it's her BH fault, isn't it, for throwing it all away.

[T1ivuQGS]

Jasmine, this is nothing new or different. Ihave been researching this stuf for about 4 years and the blameshifting and justifying is all pretty standard.
One thing i have noticed about the majority of cheaters is their inability to both accept responsibility for the affair and its consequences and their inability to see the seriousness of the offense.
In a nutshell, these foks that chat are, by and large, very emotionally , spiritually, and , sometimes, intellectually very undeveloped. And, they shout from the rooftops that they are the emotionally evolved ones. Thye have the temerity to use these absurd, infantile phrases and words like"soulmate", "closure" and "connection" etc.
Folks that talk like this are, IMO, generally idiots.

[BypeVupyide]

lol I don't believe in closure, etc