[avodeinst]

The only power in a cheating spouse is the power to screw up so many lives. I never thought the affair partner had power. I always thought they had no morals, but power.....hmmm nope.

[movlabs]

I am on a dating site and was talking to a man I chatted with on there for the last two weeks, he is 54 but listed himself as 42 or something.

and soo before our date (which was to be this Wednesday night) he actually confessed to me that he is married, with two teens and one in college.

So, I talked to him a little bit on Yahoo and gave him some tough love on cheating, mostly to scare the crap out of him, as one would scare a small child... lol, I had explained the enevitable, such as the tell-all letters from the other woman to the wife, the other woman going bezerk, the wife figuring out passwords and going bezerk, the kids losing all respect for him and going bezerk, etc and so forth, led him to seriously and truely rethink his mistake. He deleted his profile this evening. hehe.

Legal Disclaimer: I would never knowingly date a married man. I am a divorced BS. He was posing as a single man. He told me today, the day before our first date.

For the sake of scientific purposes and from my brush with a potential WS, they really are that dumb, and it wouldn't take that much to get him. OW aren't that powerful, you know what I'm saying? The WS are just reckless and stupid.

In the mind of this WS, he didn't think about the consequenses until that moment. It would have been his first affair, and it would have been a random date from a random website. He used his work computer. He had a good job as an executive manager. Married for decades. Three grown kids. He had a seemingly happy life, in a high class part of the city and he was about to risk everything over a bikini photo on a dating site he had no business even being on. Why? Because WS are dumbasses and thats all. Ask me I will tell you. My xWS was the biggest retard of them all.