[yovbQVpD]

A hypothetical: So this woman I'm dating tells me I'm handsome and she seems to be expecting a comment back about herself. She's not very pretty, but i like to think about inner beauty and what kind of person she is. What should I tell her? I don't want to lie, and if I hesitate, she'll notice I'm being untruthful. I don't want to hurt the poor woman's feeling, but i still enjoy the time and want to continue dating her, without being stabbed in the eye with a fork.

[jaydicassdhy]

Do you have a picture of yourself? I have seen plenty of ugly couples tell each other they are handsome, beautiful, sexy, or what have you.

[Kalobbis]

Nah, no judgment here bro, that's besides the point. This is a hypothetical situation, and i'm just looking for a decent response, without ruining things. This has arisen on more than 1 occasion.

[VanDerSmok]

Tell her she is beautiful. By this, you mean she is beautiful on the inside, but she may think you mean outside.

Oooh, maybe then she would say, "You don't really believe that! Other men have called me ugly! I know I'm ugly!"
"I'm not those men! I love everything about you!"

Ahahahahahaha. You would likely never encounter this situation, though. It is too specific.

[addifttiest]

She may be ugly and fat but she can have plastic surgery and diet, but you can't fix stupid son. Think of it like that.

[altosburg]

She's gotta be attractive somehow dude! I mean your still with her! I mean it can't be like she's freakshow ugly or something right?

[jimmy28]

I know when I'm not attracted, but I have often stayed with someone because I liked their personality. Her Personality is attractive.

[raspirator]

Tell her exactly wha you like about her

[tutkarussia]

Tell her thanks and don't say anything else srs.

[kilibry]

Tell her she's pretty. Let her take that however she feels like taking it.

[RG3rGWcA]

Personality is the best thing on a person, but also being truthful is the best thing to do, but be honest with yourself. You love her for her personality, so do you see her personality as beautiful? And just take some time to consider her looks and find all the beautiful things about her. That's the best thing you can do.

And this is coming from a chick, yo.

[BokerokyBan]

Don't lie to the girl, because she will find out you will be in some deep trouble. Just be honest. Girls like it when boys are honest and don't lie about anything. If you don't like her looks, just tell her. I'm sure she will understand and won't be offended, hopefully. Just be truthful and don't lie. Girls like an honest trait in boys.

[M1iFiNmC]

A hypothetical: So this woman I'm dating tells me I'm handsome and she seems to be expecting a comment back about herself. She's not very pretty, but i like to think about inner beauty and what kind of person she is. What should I tell her? I don't want to lie, and if I hesitate, she'll notice I'm being untruthful. I don't want to hurt the poor woman's feeling, but i still enjoy the time and want to continue dating her, without being stabbed in the eye with a fork.

It is physically impossible to sustain a serious relationship with someone if you do not find them attractive. That in itself should answer your questions. Just leave her a friend and don't overdue the time you spend with her.

This is not being shallow as I think it's common sense people don't marry people they find "ugly". Personality is very relevant but when it comes to intimacy and the long-run, you want someone who is attractive.

[Cogebrego]

To combine some previous statements you should handle the situation based on your own feelings. If you do not find her to be attractive you should try and let her down easily. If you do however find her attractive, and her personality is attractive as you say then you should tell her that. Be honest, and don't hide anything. Trust me, the longer a relationship lasts the more likely hidden feeling will be figured out. If it's not meant to be you should be able to tell beforehand.

[qCGfQR9T]

Just find any positive aspect. If she's a bigger girl, compliment her smile or her hair or something. If she's got a bad face, compliment her figure or tell her she has a nice ass, etc.


Look at her from a glass-half-full prospective. She can't be pure ugly.

[VXHLrsO1]

draft pick that **** - take up exercise together. Profit.

[sniskelsowwef]

If you just accept the compliment and don't say anything back, there is normally an awkward silence since she, most likely, will expect a compliment back. I would just be honest but nice. If you like her smile, or her hair, or her eyes, compliment on them. There is a reason you must like her, so be honest on that front.