[Mark_NyB]

Cheers folks.

[AK47rulz]

Sorry to hear that man. One thing I've realized in my relationships is that once a woman has made up her mind about how she feels about the relationship, there's no changing her. While the sting will be there, I'd simply be the bigger person and end it gracefully, and let her realize what she's lost. That'll sting more than anything you could do out of anger.

[purchasviagra]

Sucks buddy, but really people like this are not worth your emotions....at all. Chalk it up as a learning experience and keep your chin up. Have the joy in knowing that out of this situation you're not the bad person.

Save the joy of having a child with someone who is worth it. Really this situation couldn't have worked out any better for you. (IMO anyways)

Cheers man.


Oh as for going there and getting dumped? What is the point. Don't go. Ignore her and if she calls just say... "Ohhhhh right... I was gonna do that but then I went on living my life." Hang up.

[MrsGoo]

Oh as for going there and getting dumped? What is the point. Don't go. Ignore her and if she calls just say... "Ohhhhh right... I was gonna do that but then I went on living my life." Hang up.

This,is great advice.

[Mark_NyB]

Went for a nice meal, had a nice night.

...

Got home, she txt me, ending it.

[Slchtjgb]

That's shitty, txt message.

[AlekseyZubkov]

Went for a nice meal, had a nice night.

...

Got home, she txt me, ending it.

Real classy that. What a great girl she must have been, so thoughtful. I wonder... did you pay for the meal?

Tbh if it were me i feel like i've dodged a bullet, the next guy she sees is gonna get it worse. Much worse.

[Mark_NyB]

Yeah, I paid.

I just flipped out at her. I feel better.

[dXI9XFOA]

you should ring her new man and ask him how leftovers taste

[phenterminediett]

Yeah, I paid.

I just flipped out at her. I feel better.

If I was you, I would've headed for the bathroom and instead ducked out the front door and just left.

[Mark_NyB]

If I was you, I would've headed for the bathroom and instead ducked out the front door and just left.

Honestly I thought she was sincere in her nice actions. She spoke to me today, we talked over things and I suggested food this evening. She continued to chat happily all day and the meal was really nice too.

She clearly had other ideas.

I feel good though.

[AK47rulz]

I feel good though.

That's really all that matters. Keep yourself occupied, go out with friends, and realize this is just a small stepping stone to something much better.

[Mark_NyB]

That's really all that matters. Keep yourself occupied, go out with friends, and realize this is just a small stepping stone to something much better.

Will do.

Hope you're feeling better too dude.

[AK47rulz]

Will do.

Hope you're feeling better too dude.

Feeling really good actually, thanks. The first few days were rough but I've been keeping really active and, just as you said, I feel good.

[Mark_NyB]

Feeling really good actually, thanks. The first few days were rough but I've been keeping really active and, just as you said, I feel good.

That's good to hear. [thumbup]

[astonmartinrx371]

Often it's the not knowing where you stand that is the most difficult bit - once a clean break is made it removes all the tension, and you feel like all the weight is off you.

Kup, way she did it was actually very good for you - cold and without any regard for your feelings - makes it easy to just wipe her from your mind.

[AlekseyZubkov]

The reason i asked if you paid was because she wanted a meal out of you, and she got it. I now know what kind of person she is. Sorry to say (or rather happy actually) that she is the worst kind.

She made you pay to get dumped basically. You had a lucky escape, at least you werent married and then she fleeced you for half of everything you own.

What a pathetic (and predictable) excuse for a woman she is, im actually disgusted!

[emexiagog]

I would also suggest keying her car afterwards too.

Keying a car is the stupidest form of vandalism, that people do when they're too scared to face you.

Well done Kup, she's history for you now. Breaking up by text just says it all.
You'll be able to move on with your head high now!

[Mark_NyB]

She used to be so nice (genuinely) but she suddenly started taking on the qualities of her darling mother. The mother that bullied her for over a year.

She moved out of her mothers and in with her father when I said put up or shut up (I used to spend so so so so long comforting her because of her mother). But when her mother got her a trainee surveyor job (with no qualifications at all, she'd failed college 3 times!!!) she moved back in with her and continued on her path to being a bitch.

Away from her mother she was a real sweetheart, a genuinely nice girl, back in her mum's clutches she turned into a real bitch.

I went mental last night. It was amazing how fast she switched back to being polite when I snapped.

[DebtDetox]

In my experience the pain last 3 days. The beginning of the 4th brings enlightenment and a sense of "whew".