well from personal experience, im sure everyones is different. it just happened to me one day, im not real sure the reason but i suppose it was a combination of factors. i just knew really liked being around her until i realized it was different from any girl before and something more.

another thought id like to throw out is that 'love' is an addiction to another person. a physical, emotional and chemical dependancy on them and all that is attached, especially pheromones. a symbiotic relationship if you will.

It could be both, dear chelo. But Himura has a point. If you are going to talk about it, think really carefully. There are risks involved.

A friendship is wonderful... no doubt... but a real relationship can unite the positiv sites of both: friend and partner... and isn´t this real happyness? http://www.discussworldissues.com/fo...s/confused.gif I don´t really know^^

Dear Picardo,

based on your feelings toward your girlfriend, I don't think it's love. No, not entirely. You just like her, and you may grow to love her. Maturity is a factor here. In that case, carry on wth the kissing but that's all you should do. http://www.discussworldissues.com/fo...ilies/cold.gif

Why do you love somebody???
 

Has it a reason, why you love sombody like your partner??

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In my case he's older (10 years or so) and more accomplished -- so probably closer to a father figure/mentor followed by close friend and lover. I'd have some qualms about marrying or setting up house together long-term, though, even if it were possible, and it's for sure not what most Americans think of as mature or ideal love (although at least I can be sure it's not just for my huge breasts http://www.discussworldissues.com/fo...ilies/grin.gif ), but these roles have worked into as a very, very comfortable fit for us. So.....I'm in love with his mind, boyish enthusiasm, and then lovely/kind personality. http://www.discussworldissues.com/fo...lies/happy.gif

well... if that is love? http://www.discussworldissues.com/fo...s/confused.gif
but look into you, "listen to your heart" and you should know if you love her or not... http://www.discussworldissues.com/fo...lies/great.gif

i dont know about love eighter, i´m just a 17 year old guy (virgin) 18 this november.
i dont know if i´m "in love" with my girlfriend, but i certenly do like her a lot. some of the reasons are that she is kind and rather good looking, and she is a good kisser ;)

I've only been "in love" once in my lifetime and that ended badly. Nevertheless, it was an experience I do not regret and I suppose I did learn a great deal from my relationship with her on the dynamics of being a couple and whatnot (hindsight being 20/20 and all that). I've come to accept the fact that to be perfectly honest, I am far too self-absorbed to ever want to be in a relationship again. I enjoy doing things on my own, travelling abroad to new and wonderful places, witnessing and experiencing new things firsthand, etc. etc. I suppose if I ever met someone who shared my desire and passion for such things, then I might reconsider my options. 8-)
:)

...maybe? -you should, if you want, discover what´s up there ^^

I love because I'm completely and totally fallen in love. I've had many girlfriends, but I find that in the end it was just physical attraction. I just need someone that actually keeps their personality around me instead of trying to impress me the whole time. I've lost many attractions to people for them being superficial.

But I have a best friend that I kinda like. It's a bit odd, but she actually stays real with me. Very good friend. Maybe something more.............................................. .............

i think you both already know that answer to that. you are in a relationship with him. neither of you know how or when but it just happened and it just is that way now. its a beautiful thing you have and even more so because its unspoken. theres no real need to put a label on it.

loving each other and enjoying each others company go hand in hand. i'd be hard pressed to love someone if i didnt enjoy hanging out with them all the time. but you can kiss him and see how that goes if you havent already, if you have and all that stuff i dont think theres any reason to worry about it.

when you love someone, you accept everything about him/her...
I think it comes out of the blue most of the time...
if two people keep that feeling same time same way, they would be great together as bf/gf and the best friends...
I guess...

I love my fiance because he's always there for me, he's my best friend.. :)

He's 24, has a nice job, He's responsible
he reminds me of my father, actually..

when I need someone to turn to, he is there
I need to tell him what a horrible day it was, or how I feel on something, he's there

I need to feel safe or comforted, he is there to wrap his arms around me

I know in my heart this is the man I am going to have my child with

No matter what happen we always get through it.

He forgives me for my faults, I'm far from perfect, but he love every quirk about me

He and I fell in love from our personalities, and our minds, we saw each other later

For real I have loved many times, many girls, diffirent characters( one side love ), i don't know which one was true love but in most of the cases I realized my feelings after the disappearence of the person from my daily live ( I think it was in most of the cases missing feelings ).
Then I realized that i like to be loved by someone...... so i looked around of me and asked my friends and i found that there are a lot ( not a lot ) of poeple that I haven't noticed them around me who they love me and care about me, i've been touched by this fact but eventhough I refused to accept it, I keept looking for others........ now I'm very confused what we should do : " sould we try to love who love us or keep our feelings choose " I prefer the second choice, but with it I'm still looking.....
The other big questions that knock inside my head is why we are always looking for someone.........to be continue

I voted other, because I always fall in love with a girls eyes...

eyes are beautiful...

it's very easy to mix up love with infatuation. I've done it myself. But each time you grow a little and are a little closer to finding *real* love. Just remember that. All I have to say.

...windows to the soul

you´re right, jeisan. nice continue ^^