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08-13-2012, 07:31 PM | #1 |
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08-13-2012, 08:22 PM | #4 |
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Bro just like in life in general muslims also have different personalities and since the beginning of Islaam there has been diffrences of opinions etc. Some of our brethren (and sisters) are more in tune spiritually than others (erm...I for one am not that spiritiual type of person thus do not follow this path.) They believe to attain ihsan & tazzkiya e nafs you need to take bayat from a sheikh who will serve as your guide/mentor etc. It's only some hard core 'Salafee' types who hold that (not just bayat to a sheikh of a turuq but even Tawassuf/Sufism as we know it in a orginised sense itself) is bida't. In my humble view it's really up to the individual if you want to follow that path or not.
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08-13-2012, 08:29 PM | #5 |
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One is the concept of Bay’at and the other is the concept of Islaah al – Nafs/Tazkiyah al – Nafs (purification of the soul). There are two issues of note: |
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08-13-2012, 08:59 PM | #6 |
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08-13-2012, 09:25 PM | #8 |
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There are two aspects to it:
1) Tassawuf is a science,you want to learn it,you need a teacher...and obviously you need to obey him as for as the subject under discussion is concerned.This blind obedience does not stretch to any other aspect of your life,unless it is somehow concerned with the subject under discussion.For example if you are not earning Rizq e halal your Sufi teacher has every right to put you back on the right track etc. 2)Blind obedience to Shaikh in all the matters,considering his halal as halal...and his haram as haram.....without checking it with Quran and Sunna.This kind of bayat is haram,null and void and one must leave such Shaikh as quickly as possible. As for the question of 'Bayat per se"', I don,t see any reason why it should be haram.A student comes to a teacher,make tauba from the mistakes of his previous life,and make a pledge that he will spend the rest of his life according to Quran and Sunna,under the guidance of the same spiritual master.This can only be called good,and there is evidence from the life of our Prophet sallaho alai he wa sallam,taking bayat from different people for different reasons,like they will not commit zina,or steal etc. |
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08-13-2012, 09:32 PM | #9 |
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08-13-2012, 10:54 PM | #10 |
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08-13-2012, 11:13 PM | #11 |
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Brother, if one found unluckily a fake Sheikh then he could realize that by time to time. Like, he won't feel comfort while sitting with him or talking to him. His sheikh won't come in his dream. If he would get upset his Sheikh will call him while no one has informed the Sheikh about his situation. There are many many things .... We need such a Shaikh too. |
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08-13-2012, 11:18 PM | #12 |
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How does one know who to trust? A Shaykh might be a charlatan who just wants to increase his students and control other people, make it look like he is a guide? I mean as a murid you may be required to serve the shaykh...maybe its kind of nice having servants doing things for you? |
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08-13-2012, 11:20 PM | #13 |
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08-13-2012, 11:28 PM | #14 |
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08-13-2012, 11:41 PM | #15 |
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From my understanding "bayan" is pledging blind obedience to a Sheikh. as for giving bayat... If it is haram to then the Sunni Muslims of history (including most great scholars) were sinners If it is bidah then the Sunnah Muslims of history (including most great scholars) were innovators I cannot believe that I am hearing this discussion on Sunniforum |
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08-13-2012, 11:52 PM | #16 |
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How does one know who to trust? A Shaykh might be a charlatan who just wants to increase his students and control other people, make it look like he is a guide? I mean as a murid you may be required to serve the shaykh...maybe its kind of nice having servants doing things for you? none of them are connected to or respected by real Ulema real Sheikhs are not worldly people and they do not seek servants the real Sheikhs are generally the ones who the Ulema praise or refer people too below are links to some real Sheikhs of Tasawwuf http://www.tasawwuf.org/ US&Pak http://www.sacredlearning.org/ US http://beautyofislam.org/profile.html UK http://www.khanqah-e-naqshband.com/ http://www.pirghulamhabib.com/khulafa2.htm various read this book if you want to know what real Sufism is http://themajlis.net/books-index-req...s-bkid-36.html |
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08-13-2012, 11:54 PM | #17 |
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Check these lectures out for more info on this topic.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UalgW-CMS-Q http://www.islamicspirituality.org/l...nding-tasawwuf |
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08-14-2012, 12:21 AM | #18 |
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Check these lectures out for more info on this topic. then there's this series by Shaykh HUssain Abdul Sattar, M.D. on tasawuff, which is highly recommended: http://www.sacredlearning.org/tasawwuf?layout=category the above two will take up quite a bit of your time, but if you want to really understand the subject you have to spend some time learning about it. but if you want something real brief i.e. fast food, since you're an American then there's this short lecture by Mufti Muhammad Ibn Adam Al'Kawthari of the UK: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I43IriBx4BE (when i say short lecture, i mean short relative to the other two) brother revert are you not the least bit intrigued by the path (sufism) travelled by Imam Ghazzali, Imam Adhahabi, Imam Nawawi and countless others? |
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08-14-2012, 12:25 AM | #19 |
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AbdurRaheem2;804785][SIZE=3]We do not obey anyone, even the Amir of the believers, if he tells us to do anything that is against the Laws of Allah I read a quote by Shaykh Abdal Qadir Jilani (ra) in which he said by the ruling of the shariah I am a wrongdoer but by the haqiqa I am correct. Which means for example, shariah may require me to grow a beard, but because I have pride and self admiration it might be acceptable by haqiqa if I trim my beard so that the opinions of others do not bother me and I lower my own self. By divesting myself I am actually becoming more beloved to Allah. This is temporary of course I can grow my beard again once I have been cured.
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08-14-2012, 12:43 AM | #20 |
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http://www.tasawwuf.org/audio/itikaf_urdu.htm
English speaches here, listenting the one one done in Ramadan 21st this year about tassawuf (or sufism) |
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