[JasminBerkova]

Ameen Ya Rabb! I've never met anyone like her subhan Allah. It's especially the little things she does that are heart-melting like not letting go of a persons hand during a handshake until the other person lets go first and they way she covers up others faults at her own expense and her beautiful humility and her friendliness to strangers and and and and...I mean she's just overflowing with piety masha Allah tabarak Allah.

Alright then, I guess there's no need to bring it up with her and don't worry im convinced iA.



May Allah SWT grant her His deeply affectionate love Amin!Amin Amin!!! and please everyone do say Amin too!!!!

WOOWW! sounds amazing, like a dream person

[Machater]

you have no idea my sis may Allah SWT bless her marriage amin.

[12Cickprior]

I think she gets her akhlaq partly from her parents and the rest from her own striving to improve herself. and btw she'll b getting married this year iA just incase you were thinking...

No, not at all. I had no such intention. Plus if I were to marry, I'd marry a young, unlearned but humble girl. So she wouldn't be my match anyway.

The reason I asked about the source of her akhlaq, is I assume she is reading some really special books that have the power to make such a transform. Parents have effect too, but the books and teachers have even more.

[JasminBerkova]

you have no idea my sis may Allah SWT bless her marriage amin!

LoL! ameen.

i'm just thinking that sooo pious girls a rare u know, why dont you convince her to become a shaikha? - since it appears that she has the stuffs for it.

[Machater]

No, not at all. I had no such intention. Plus if I were to marry, I'd marry a young, unlearned but humble girl. So she wouldn't be my match anyway.

The reason I asked about the source of her akhlaq, is I assume she is reading some really special books that have the power to make such a transform. Parents have effect too, but the books and teachers have even more.

i apologize for thinking that then

She used to read sufi related texts but then later stopped i beleive and now she reads materialon tazkyahtul nafs she also likes to listen to lectures about that too. I'm not sure what else has contributed to her akhlaq interms of books. I really think her dad has influenced her greatly as well. from what ive seen of him, he seems to be a really sincere and upright man too masha Allah.

[Machater]

And i pray Allah SWT grants you a superb wife my brother who is perfectly compatible with you in every single way. amin. Barak Allah

[Machater]

I'd just like to say that its true this sister is wonderfully blessed but all can reach that level and higher bi'idnillahi ta'ala. May Allah SWT make us all that we aspire to be Amin. and May Allah SWT bless SF. and bless her even more Amin.

[JasminBerkova]

I'd just like to say that its true this sister is wonderfully blessed but we can aaaall reach that level and waaaay higher!!! May Allah SWT make us all that we aspire to be Amin!!!and may we never give up in our struggles Amin!!! and May Allah SWT bless SF! Amin!! ad May Allah SWT bless her even more Amin !!!! !!!

yah, lol. ameeeen.

[12Cickprior]

Honestly nowadays it is very rare to find good and pious girls. At least I didn't see one where I live.

The main reason I think is, Internet & TV bundle that bombards our hearts and minds with what not.. one day you are super Muslim, the other day you are down. Being constantly exposed to such things brings about severe wounds and erosion in hearts. So the souls and minds become pretty much polluted. Scholars such as Imam al-Bukhari and Imam ash-Shafi'i used to memorize instantly... whereas we... no room for comparison.

Amidst eroding factors of society we live in either one should isolate himself from all and everything, or be submerged in from all angles. It is so difficult to find the middle way.

[JasminBerkova]

Honestly nowadays it is very rare to find good and pious girls...

but they still exist, good and pious boys are EXTINCT!

[Machater]

Honestly nowadays it is very rare to find good and pious girls. At least I didn't see one where I live.

The main reason I think is, Internet & TV bundle that bombards our hearts and minds with what not.. one day you are super Muslim, the other day you are down. Being constantly exposed to such things brings about severe wounds and erosion in hearts. So the souls and minds become pretty much polluted. Scholars such as Imam al-Bukhari and Imam ash-Shafi'i used to memorize instantly... whereas we... no room for comparison.

Amidst eroding factors of society we live in either one should isolate himself from all and everything, or be submerged in from all angles. It is so difficult to find the middle way.

So true my brother. Temptation surrounds us; you just can’t escape it especially if you’re living in the West. To resist is to feel deprived and bored. But in reality, that’s only a phase and if we endure that phase, Allah SWT will send ease down upon us making what was once difficult and ‘painful’ now effortless and enjoyable for us.

My brother- for what its worth- I believe Allah SWT can grant you theperfect wife but on one condition wallahu a'lam: that you yourself believe He SWT will too. Perhaps many of us don't apprecitate how important it is to think well of Allah SWT and have the best opinion of Him SWT no matter how bad conditions are or how pear-shaped things are going in our lives. Allah SWT does not have the ‘heart’ to turn us away if we keep begging Him SWT. He SWT is too kind/loving/gentle to an extent we cannot even comprehend. If we keep hoping in Him SWT regardless, He SWT will most certainly grant us way more than we asked for and He SWT make us wonderfully pleased.

May we estimate Allah SWT His SWT due estimation. Amin thumma amin

Anything good I said here is truly from Allah SWT walhamdullilah. The rest is from me, my nafs and shaytaan the rejected.

[Machater]

but they still exist, good and pious boys are EXTINCT!

hehehe

[Machater]

Sorry brother veranda if i offended you with my post

[kanchouska]

i apologize for thinking that then.. if i was a guy though i would love to marry s1 like that lol

She used to read sufi related texts but then later stopped i beleive and now she reads materialon tazkyahtul nafs she also likes to listen to lectures about that too. hmm.. im not sure what else has contributed to her akhlaq interms of books. I really think her dad has influenced her greatly as well. from what ive seen of him, he seems to be a really sincere and upright man too masha Allah.

when youre single,it is easy to do alot of solah nafil,all kind of ibadahs but once youre married,you'll be in another realm..thats where the real battlefield will begin.. it takes years or lifetime to develop and maintain our akhlaq..this is an ongoing process..

[Machater]

when youre single,it is easy to do alot of solah nafil,all kind of ibadahs but once youre married,you'll be in another realm..thats where the real battlefield will begin.. it takes years or lifetime to develop and maintain our akhlaq..this is an ongoing process..

I completely agree with you my sister married life can be very challenging and difficult but insha Allah she will be stronger for it and Allah SWT will love her much more.

[12Cickprior]

Maaaaan what am i saying! of course you believe that. Seriously, who do i think i aaaam????? YA Allah! save me from myself! Qul amin! plz forgive me my brother barak Allah

I didn't see anything wrong, but good reminder. It was a Nasihah, and I really do appreciate any type of Nasihah from anyone.

[Machater]

I didn't see anything wrong, but good reminder. It was a Nasihah, and I really do appreciate any type of Nasihah from anyone.

Thank you for your reply brother verdana. Masha Allah tabarak Allah only the arrogant have a hard time taking advice from anyone.