[Zjohkrbi]

So I went on vacation recently, and while on vacation I met a girl. We talked a little bit, but not too much and her parents and mine are close friends. Anyway the first time I saw her I fell in love with her, and I couldn’t keep my mind off her. I thought I would get over her soon, because now I’m home, and I’m not seeing her or talking to her anymore. However I still can’t stop thinking about her, and Ive been praying to Allah to show me the right way every night. Last night I prayed a lot, and thats when I had a dream. She was in the dream, and she was the only one in it. She had white cloths on that had blue designs in them. The cloths looked like what the average muslim women would wear, but she didn’t have a hijab on. In the dream I was trying to get to her but I couldn’t. Thats all I remember, but what does this dream mean? What should I do? What would the dream mean if I was with her?

[Dynasty]

Assalamu alaykum,

Nobody here is able to interpret the dream for you.

However, if you are interested in this girl, propose marriage to her (via her parents) after performing istikharah salah.

[Dynasty]

Well, if she says no, he can put it out of his mind for good, can't he?

Or would you rather he fall into the trap of the shaytan and 'get to know her first'?

[PymnImmen]

I swear to God I know people who fall in love almost instantly, I have a co-worker in the company and this female trainee comes and works with us for about a week and then she leaves to continue her studies, suddenly the guy tells me "Too bad I was in love with her" and I'm like "WTH MAN! You barely even talked to her, how'd you fall in love already!?" It's like the guy goes downstairs to buy some Yoghurt and he falls in love with every female along the way LOL, I say this is pure sexual Shahwa, in no way is this love.

[Zjohkrbi]

Well at this point I'm too young to get married. I didn't only talk to her once or twice, I saw her everyday for about a week. I know she doesn't like anyone because she even told me that she's not the type of girl who has crushes on other boys.

[PymnImmen]

Well at this point I'm too young to get married. I didn't only talk to her once or twice, I saw her everyday for about a week. I know she doesn't like anyone because she even told me that she's not the type of girl who has crushes on other boys.

Well having a girlfriend is Haram because it leads to Haram acts, so either you marry her or forget about this person...

[seosoftseo]

Off topic

Phirtay Hain yun Tou Shehr Main U'shaaq Ku' ba Ku'
Marnay ka Hosala hay na Jeenay kay Dhang hain

( Though many lovers roam around in the streets but neither they have the courage to die nor can they devise some good ways to live a life)

[Lymnempomma]

What happened to this Ummah? People do not consider it Haraam to look at and talk to a non-mahram. Rather they seek for so called "Islamic remedy" of problems created by Haraam activities!

[Slonopotam845]

Why was my post deleted?

[8Uxtkz7F]

Because you gave bad and unislamic advice.

[Slonopotam845]

Because you gave bad and unislamic advice.

What was so bad about it?

[Lymnempomma]

What was so bad about it?

Your ignorance knows no bound.

[Slonopotam845]

Your ignorance knows no bound.

Your arrogance knows no bounds. I was merely trying to help the brother and there was nothing "unislamic" about what I said.

[Lymnempomma]

Your arrogance knows no bounds. I was merely trying to help the brother and there was nothing "unislamic" about what I said.

Your deleted post is still stored in my inbox. I'll post that here InshaAllaah.

[jyhugikuhih]

Bro, the dream was probably just your subconscious at work. You yourself said you liked this girl and were thinking about her a lot. The fact that you "prayed a lot" that night is neither here nor there. You are either infatuated or in love; either way, you will "see" what your heart wants you to see. Every little thing will become a sign that you're "meant to be together". Don't believe it.

You should not be thinking of ghayr mahram girls during ramadan in the first place. If you can't get married now, then that's that. There's nothing left to do but forget about this girl. It might be hard, but it must be done. I don't know how long it will be till you can get married, but if she and her parents are willing, maybe she could "reserve" herself for you until you're old enough. But even then, you cannot think about her or see her.

I've seen this too many times, man. Guy falls in love with a girl and spends every waking minute thinking about her. Dreams about her. Spends his money and his effort in trying to impress her. And in doing so, neglects his deen and dunya, starts doing poorly in school or at work, starts missing prayers. In the end they don't even get married, and the guy has ruined his prospects in life.

Don't let it happen to you. Focus on your studies or your career, and your deen. Get some good qualifications. Inshallah then you'll find it easy to get married to a nice girl.

[NanoGordeno]

So I went on vacation recently, and while on vacation I met a girl. We talked a little bit, but not too much and her parents and mine are close friends. Anyway the first time I saw her I fell in love with her, and I couldn’t keep my mind off her. I thought I would get over her soon, because now I’m home, and I’m not seeing her or talking to her anymore. However I still can’t stop thinking about her, and Ive been praying to Allah to show me the right way every night. Last night I prayed a lot, and thats when I had a dream. She was in the dream, and she was the only one in it. She had white cloths on that had blue designs in them. The cloths looked like what the average muslim women would wear, but she didn’t have a hijab on. In the dream I was trying to get to her but I couldn’t. Thats all I remember, but what does this dream mean? What should I do? What would the dream mean if I was with her?

Meaningless dream. If you want to pursue nikkah do so but go through proper channels and make proper istikharrah.

[R1king]

stop casting glances at non muhrim patricularly her, this would be the best remedy..

[Slonopotam845]

Your deleted post is still stored in my inbox. I'll post that here InshaAllaah.

Then post it.

[Zjohkrbi]

stop casting glances at non muhrim patricularly her, this would be the best remedy..

Yah but I can't look at her anyway because she lives across America.

[Zjohkrbi]

I asked Allah to lead me to right path last night and asked whether it would be better to forget her, or to not forget her and I had another dream. Again she was in it and we were at a shoe store, and I was constantly taking out white shoes. I heard if you see white in your dreams it means that Allah is saying there is good out the situation that I'm in.