LOGO
Reply to Thread New Thread
Old 03-12-2009, 10:05 AM   #1
picinaRefadia

Join Date
Oct 2005
Posts
475
Senior Member
Default Leaving a tariqa
Salaam,

What is the adaab of leaving a particular tariqa? Do you just not go to their lectures or do you need to inform the sheikh?

jazakallah
picinaRefadia is offline


Old 03-12-2009, 10:10 AM   #2
Orefsmisits

Join Date
Oct 2005
Posts
442
Senior Member
Default
Wa `alaykum as-salam:

I depends on the tariqa. Some turuq have different `adab than others. For example, in the Shadhili tariqa, one may leave the Tariqa upto 3 times.

My recommendation is to take it case by case, Tariqa by tariqa.

Wassalam

Abi Abbas al-Maliki
Orefsmisits is offline


Old 03-12-2009, 11:38 AM   #3
maxuilg

Join Date
Oct 2005
Posts
499
Senior Member
Default


Search http://www.ashrafiya.com/ for a discussion on this
maxuilg is offline


Old 03-12-2009, 11:47 AM   #4
picinaRefadia

Join Date
Oct 2005
Posts
475
Senior Member
Default
Wa `alaykum as-salam:

I depends on the tariqa. Some turuq have different `adab than others. For example, in the Shadhili tariqa, one may leave the Tariqa 3 times.

My recommendation is to take it case by case, Tariqa by tariqa.

Wassalam

Abi Abbas al-Maliki
three times? so you can join back twice?

why is that? what happens after the third? is it a sin by any chance?

what about other tariqas?
picinaRefadia is offline


Old 03-12-2009, 03:27 PM   #5
Nfxutkpa

Join Date
Oct 2005
Posts
448
Senior Member
Default
three times? so you can join back twice?

why is that? what happens after the third? is it a sin by any chance?

what about other tariqas?
Leaving the tariqa
Nfxutkpa is offline


Old 03-13-2009, 03:17 AM   #6
Trercakaressy

Join Date
Oct 2005
Posts
490
Senior Member
Default
For example, in the Shadhili tariqa, one may leave the Tariqa 3 times.
Do you mean that this is a general understanding in the Shadhiliyah, or some specific Shuyukh?
Trercakaressy is offline


Old 03-13-2009, 07:19 AM   #7
TEFSADDERFISA

Join Date
Oct 2005
Posts
659
Senior Member
Default
The adab of leaving a tariqa is NOT TO INFROM THE SHAYKH. The reason being is that the Shaykh will be devasted if told what ever the reason maybe. I pray that this helps. Request for duas Faqeer Ahmed Naqshbandi.
TEFSADDERFISA is offline


Old 03-13-2009, 09:08 AM   #8
Orefsmisits

Join Date
Oct 2005
Posts
442
Senior Member
Default
Wa `alaykum as-salam:

This is what Shaykh Nuh Keller (may Allah preserve him) says in his little booklet about the Shadhili tariqa and thus, that's what I've heard about Shaykh Nuh Keller (may Allah preserve him)'s Shadhiliya-Darqawiya-Hashimiya tariqa which goes through Shaykh `Abd ar-Rahman Shaghouri (may Allah have mercy upon him) and Shaykh Muhammad al-Hashimi (may Allah have mercy upon him)

Wassalam
Orefsmisits is offline


Old 03-13-2009, 07:23 PM   #9
picinaRefadia

Join Date
Oct 2005
Posts
475
Senior Member
Default
Wa `alaykum as-salam:

This is what Shaykh Nuh Keller (may Allah preserve him) says in his little booklet about the Shadhili tariqa and thus, that's what I've heard about Shaykh Nuh Keller (may Allah preserve him)'s Shadhiliya-Darqawiya-Hashimiya tariqa which goes through Shaykh `Abd ar-Rahman Shaghouri (may Allah have mercy upon him) and Shaykh Muhammad al-Hashimi (may Allah have mercy upon him)

Wassalam
If one leaves the shadhili tariqa do they inform the Sheikh?
picinaRefadia is offline


Old 03-14-2009, 03:32 AM   #10
Orefsmisits

Join Date
Oct 2005
Posts
442
Senior Member
Default
Wa `alaykum as-salam:

I'm not sure.....................
Orefsmisits is offline


Old 03-14-2009, 07:49 AM   #11
mobiphones

Join Date
Oct 2005
Posts
546
Senior Member
Default
If one leaves the shadhili tariqa do they inform the Sheikh?
Yes they do, I know a Talib of Sheikh Nuh who left the tariqa to become a Qadri.

He sought permission first, because our area has no other shadhilis, and the only sufis in the area were Qadris, Sheikh Nuh gave his blessing to join up with the Qadris.

Later on the brother missed his sheikh very much and asked Sheikh Nuh personnaly to accept him back, which Sheikh Nuh graciously did.

...And in our tarriqa, permission should be sought for leaving or changing a Tarriqa, To leave or change without permission would be conssidered an insult to your Sheikh
mobiphones is offline


Old 05-07-2011, 10:28 PM   #12
gettoblaster

Join Date
Oct 2005
Posts
634
Senior Member
Default
Yes they do, I know a Talib of Sheikh Nuh who left the tariqa to become a Qadri.

He sought permission first, because our area has no other shadhilis, and the only sufis in the area were Qadris, Sheikh Nuh gave his blessing to join up with the Qadris.

Later on the brother missed his sheikh very much and asked Sheikh Nuh personnaly to accept him back, which Sheikh Nuh graciously did.

...And in our tarriqa, permission should be sought for leaving or changing a Tarriqa, To leave or change without permission would be conssidered an insult to your Sheikh
Very right,one must ask his shaikh first & do every thing with his blessings.Hopefully this will put baraka in his decision.
gettoblaster is offline



Reply to Thread New Thread

« Previous Thread | Next Thread »

Currently Active Users Viewing This Thread: 1 (0 members and 1 guests)
 

All times are GMT +1. The time now is 06:40 AM.
Copyright ©2000 - 2012, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
Search Engine Optimization by vBSEO 3.6.0 PL2
Design & Developed by Amodity.com
Copyright© Amodity