[draigenia]

Brothers n sisters I need your help I'm not a good muslim bt I have met a girl we are both deeply in love and from the start we wanted to get married she makes me a better man in everyway Inc religious she believed in me wen my own family virtually disowned me I stopped drinking N committing other horrible sins with her help n I want to marry her I am Sunni she is a shia I'm Pakistani n she is Arabian this does not bother me or her however her father will not agree only because I'm pakistani n Sunni are there any dua me n her can read that will make him accept mine n her marriage as we can't marry without His approvall

[zoppereurvito]

Firstly, thats not 'love'. It's mere feelings which can be rid of when one focuses on the priorities in life.

[viepedorlella]

Firstly, thats not 'love'. It's mere feelings which can be rid of when one focuses on the priorities in life.

and secondly?

Come on give him complete advice. What should he do now?

[Grennios]

Brothers n sisters I need your help I'm not a good muslim bt I have met a girl we are both deeply in love and from the start we wanted to get married she makes me a better man in everyway Inc religious she believed in me wen my own family virtually disowned me I stopped drinking N committing other horrible sins with her help n I want to marry her I am Sunni she is a shia I'm Pakistani n she is Arabian this does not bother me or her however her father will not agree only because I'm pakistani n Sunni are there any dua me n her can read that will make him accept mine n her marriage as we can't marry without His approvall

My advice is stick to your family, They are your own blood. InshAllah you will get a better girl. But if your parents disown you, It will be difficult for you in this life and the hereafter. May Allah save us from such trails. Ameen.

“Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, let him maintain the bonds of kinship.” (Bukhari)

[Poohoppesmase]

Brothers n sisters I need your help I'm not a good muslim bt I have met a girl we are both deeply in love and from the start we wanted to get married she makes me a better man in everyway Inc religious she believed in me wen my own family virtually disowned me I stopped drinking N committing other horrible sins with her help n I want to marry her I am Sunni she is a shia I'm Pakistani n she is Arabian this does not bother me or her however her father will not agree only because I'm pakistani n Sunni are there any dua me n her can read that will make him accept mine n her marriage as we can't marry without His approvall

sheeesh....we have turned into an Umma of whiners. If you were as desperate for Allah as you are for this Shi'ite, you would have been successful, both here and there. May Allah guide you.

[AM1VV9r6]

Brothers n sisters I need your help I'm not a good muslim bt I have met a girl we are both deeply in love and from the start we wanted to get married she makes me a better man in everyway Inc religious she believed in me wen my own family virtually disowned me I stopped drinking N committing other horrible sins with her help n I want to marry her I am Sunni she is a shia I'm Pakistani n she is Arabian this does not bother me or her however her father will not agree only because I'm pakistani n Sunni are there any dua me n her can read that will make him accept mine n her marriage as we can't marry without His approvall

As salaam alaikum wa rahmatullah,

Well, I suppose if she becomes a Sunni then her family will disown her and then she's all yours. Also, if she becomes a Hanafi then she won't even need a wali to get married, so problem solved

Only kidding bro. Now, firstly find out if she feels the same way about you because there is no point persueing this if she your feelings aren't mutual.

[juptVatoSoito]

Brother, I would urge you to seek out Ulema in your local area. You also need to ask yourself that if this girl was to go from your life somehow, would you continue to be the better Muslim that you've become or would you return to how you were previously (Na'adbhulbillah)?

As for Dua's, then it might be a better thing for you to pray that Allah Ta'ala keep you on the straight and narrow and keeps you from harram.

All of the above was written with a brotherly tone, not a harsh one. *smile*

[WaysletlyLene]

Since she is an arab and a shiate. She is likly to be quiet demanding financially. Even if you get married to her, do you think you are going to meet all her finanical demand. In the modern times, well to arab women are vane and superfical stemming from years of practice of being spoilt rotten by their parents.

plz shed some more light on it.

[Xiciljed]

plz shed some more light on it.

It's called racial profiling, and or racism.