[tropicana]

Assalamulykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu,

may Allah taala accept all your duas and bless you and your families,all your near & dears with khair and aafiyat in both worlds.ameen

i request you all to please make dua for me.
i am getting married inshAllah in few months and i really hope inshAllah its all done according to the Sharia and sunnah.inshAllah.its my dua that my nikah is done in the masjid but families are not willing.

may Allah taala grant all the married and unmarried muslim brothers and sisters pious spouses and put much barakah in their nikah and may it all be a zariya for coming closer to Allah.ameen

jazakumAllah khair

wassalamulykum

[goctorsurger]

Assalamulykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu,

may Allah taala accept all your duas and bless you and your families,all your near & dears with khair and aafiyat in both worlds.ameen

i request you all to please make dua for me.
i am getting married inshAllah in few months and i really hope inshAllah its all done according to the Sharia and sunnah.inshAllah.its my dua that my nikah is done in the masjid but families are not willing.

may Allah taala grant all the married and unmarried muslim brothers and sisters pious spouses and put much barakah in their nikah and may it all be a zariya for coming closer to Allah.ameen

jazakumAllah khair

wassalamulykum

Recite Ya Lateefu 111 times after every salaat 3 times durood before and after. Then make dua Allah swt gets you married according to sunnah method in the shortest time possible with easiness. Insha'Allah it will work out.

Get some elders involved to talk to your father. Ask the imam of masjid to speak to your father/the guys father. Sometimes in these situations there is a give and take aspect. You may have to give up some minor things to keep control over major things. Give up small battles but win the war.

[TheDoctor]

Assalamulykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu,

may Allah taala accept all your duas and bless you and your families,all your near & dears with khair and aafiyat in both worlds.ameen

i request you all to please make dua for me.
i am getting married inshAllah in few months and i really hope inshAllah its all done according to the Sharia and sunnah.inshAllah.its my dua that my nikah is done in the masjid but families are not willing.

may Allah taala grant all the married and unmarried muslim brothers and sisters pious spouses and put much barakah in their nikah and may it all be a zariya for coming closer to Allah.ameen

jazakumAllah khair

wassalamulykum

Wow what an amazing dua, jk khayr. And may He for whose sake u want to get married in a masjid accept ure hearts wish and incline the hearts of the families towards the masjid. Ameen

[DuePew]

AA

Do nafil salah hajjat and make dua to Allah. I have seen disputes within families on attempts to keep marriage simple according to Sharia. I have read somewhere that respect of parents should be kept in mind and let them do mubah things instead of getting so strict and cause stretch.
Mostly men go to masjid and get the nikah done there in the presence of witnesses etc. Girl is usually at home.
Attended few nikahs where both bridge and groom were in the masjid (segregated). It cause some issues with purdah, hijab, kids, babies, noise, chaos. Also women without purdah/hijab were comming and going around the main enterance of masjid while people were on the way for salah.
So keep in mind overall picture please.

WS

[Inettypofonee]

Wow what an amazing dua, jk khayr. And may He for whose sake u want to get married in a masjid accept ure hearts wish and incline the hearts of the families towards the masjid. Ameen

assalamu alaium sister you will be in my duas,insha allah if it is ment to be you will get the nikkah

[tropicana]

Walaikumassalam wa rahmatullahi wa barkatuhu,

JazakumAllah khair katheer for your duas brothers & sisters.
as of now,its no finalised where the nikah will take place.so i have hope and please please please keep making duas.

@bro FususAlHikam - inshAllah doing tasbih of Ya Lateefu.
my dad wont like talking to the imaam.the boys family is okay about it but they also prefer it at home.
honestly-i dont know what to compromise on-m worried.there is the pardah issue,the music issue,all are big ones.esp since the asian culture has too much bida-barat,mehndi ceremony etc etc.

@Farhanale - i agree.that does happen.maybe its better if the girl stays home but even if both go to masjid,i think its fine if only few people go.so less pardah and other issues.i also think about that,that i should not annoy my parents esp now (as it is they have a hard time with my pardah so..)should i compromise on this issue?my father really wants it at home but the boy and i dont.i feel this new begining should start from a place of purity,most of all-its a beautiful sunnah,inshAllah can be done once.i really dont want to let go.Allahu alam


wassalmulykum

[GtmFeqJJ]

i do'nt know if its even sunnah to do nikah at the masjid,if it's involved only the man , it's ok to do at the masjid but if the bride have to be there too, i think you should listen to your father.. it's important to have your father's blessing at the start of your nikah.. furthermore if it will be done at your home , your family is able to control the "pardah" issue, so there will be less intermingling of the sexes..Allahu a'lam.

[WapSaibian]

i do'nt know if its even sunnah to do nikah at the masjid,if it's involved only the man , it's ok to do at the masjid but if the bride have to be there too, i think you should listen to your father.. it's important to have your father's blessing at the start of your nikah.. furthermore if it will be done at your home , your family is able to control the "pardah" issue, so there will be less intermingling of the sexes..Allahu a'lam.

Agree with sister and will surely pray that your nikkah take place according to sunnah... InshAllah