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Assalamu Alaikum,

Hope all of you are well and taking advantage of the sacred month of Muharram. Just a few questions:

1) Hypothetically: When my parents will pass away (and if I am still alive), my uncles and aunts will want to hold ''challisha'' and other bidatti activities e.g. having a milad gathering after 3 days, 40 days and feeding people. Unfortunately, I may have no choice but to join in (I can't boycott these events since it involves my own parents!). Is there anything you would suggest I could do?


Wassalam wa Jazakumullah Khair