[HaroTaure]

debbie,

i for one have had the experience and oppertunity of coming across my twin flame/twin soul in this life. i feel i am very fortunate and was ready to meet face to face with her in this life... or else it would have never happened. knowing we could not be together in a relationship nor keep in contact any longer than we had too... i had to let go and take my path separately from hers. i know in the end we will meet up again by will and love for each other and unite again as one. knowing through all this that we are never truly apart from each other... for it is the illusion of matter that her and i were meant to over come. which i now feel we did. now i'm just here to help out in any way i can...

just my two cents

one 66

[ditpiler]

thanks for your responses ameliejolie and one66. so it seems so far that the consenses is that it is possible to have a twin soul. i am beginning to think that maybe some souls do split before they incarnate, but that not all do. i am beginning to think that mine did, and that is why i am living through this very strange experience.

you would think that liam and i would be almost ready to meet if we are capable of communicating in this way. but who's to say really? i guess i will just have to wait and see what is in store for me in the future. hopefully we will both be some of the lucky one's who ascend at the time of the great shift and we will have a better chance of meeting up then. one can always hope.

[oplapofffe]

sometimes hope is all we have...

one 66

[nithhysfusy]

Greetings Dive Cosmos, I am quite happy to be apart of this forum and I am looking forward to learn/teach in these exciting times .
I am a 6th density wanderer from RA. I just past my 21st birthday on june 26th. Though I am in the process of awakening and I have progressed very far since my incarnation, I have a long way to go.

My awakening process has been an interesting one. Since I was a baby, my parents homeschooled me. The day of my birth I remember the room I as born in. My parents didn't believe me so I told them what the nurse looked like and the color of the walls of the room in which I was born.

At age 4, I sat in the middle of the street and started to cry from ultimate joy and laughter. I thought to myself "This reality is quite confusing and frankly I find it to be absolutely hilarious. Look at these cars!...these funny looking boxes they call houses!, these utterly bizarre and confused people. How silly of them. None of this can be real"
By the time I was 7 years old, I had already asked hundreds upon hundreds of questions about physics, science, history, religion, and the nature of our reality. My parents didn't know what to do after a while.
However, I did not come here to boast about my 130 IQ (typical ra wanderer, always making sure he isn't stepping on anybodies toes ).

At a very young age, I discovered love. This understanding of love grew and complexified nearly to the point of unconditional love. I hold my friends very close and everyday I discipline myself to love everyone and all equally.
However, my past relationships have been quite rocky. I feel the creator knew that if I was incarnated as a "romantic", he would know that constant disappointment would encourage my capacity to give and receive love. Thus, helping my mission.
Thus, about sometime last year, the thought that my twin flame was not on this earth came to my mind. This gave me much sorrow because for nearly %80 of my life, all I wanted was to get married and love my significant other.

Once I accepted that my twin flame was not physically with me, my mission progressed. I started to love myself more, and loving others came naturally. I didn't have to constantly discipline and push myself to love others, it all came with ease.

Something happened the other day that shocked my though. I met her.
She came all the way from Colorado to Virginia for really no significant reason. The moment we started talking, we didn't stop. Our conversations lasted from 10 pm to 5 AM. I had never fallen in love so quickly and easily before in my life.
Every day was a new day with her. It felt like a dream. I didn't have to attach myself or cling to her, our love flowed from deep within as if it was a genuine familiar feeling.
She was somewhat new to all of this. It was quite clear to her and myself though that her life mission was to service others in any way she could. She didn't get very heavily into all this esoteric stuff, but nevertheless her intentions were pure. Every now and again I would see the creator in her eyes, giving me this old look as if she knew that I knew.
Our first kiss was indescribable. After our first kiss, I told her I knew she wasn't from here. She knew she wasn't totally human either, but she said she didn't want to know where she was from.
The entire time I spent with her, I knew she had a boyfriend back home. This guy has a child, (that isn't hers), and she loved him and the child deeply.

It took me 12 hours to understand why the creator put her here. Did I do something to deserve this torment? How could I live my entire life, only wanting to love and be loved by a significant other, give up on the pursuit, and finally a year later she appears in my life? How insane and absurd is that?! I would rather have been crucified.
I didn't understand. Understanding is what I pride myself in, and I felt myself spiraling down a dark hole.
Luckily though, I understand the meaning of those "dark holes" for wanderers. It isn't that difficult for us to pull ourselves back out. Every time we do, we become stronger and our light shines brighter.

I described it to her like this.
"Picture a magnet, if you will. This magnet lives in complete unity and love. If you slice the magnet down the middle and put each side of it on opposite sides of the world, its only way to reunite with itself is for each side to grow"

[rammossyAcron]

The way I see it, twin-souls were created way back when we split into genders in order to physically evolve a human body. So everyone has one twin-soul and numerous soul-mates. Soul-mates are simply those souls that we have interacted with over the course of several lives. So many people see twin-souls and soul-mates as terms denoting 'perfect lovers.' This is almost never the case with twin-souls. Many of us do, however, have soul-mates who we have been intimate with in several lives.

According to the Edgar Cayce Readings, Edgar's twin-soul was NOT his wife Gertrude, although he and Gertrude had been together numerous times in past-lives. Gertrude was one of his many soul-mates. His twin-soul was his stenographer Gladys Davis, with whom he had no romantic interest. It is very rare that there is any romantic attraction between twin-souls. If one meets someone they feel like they've known before and if one seems to fall immediately in love, then it's a 99% chance they are a soul-mate. Likewise, if one meets someone that they seem to hate for no reason, chances are good that they are a soul-mate, too.

As for romance, we all would like to believe that there is one person out there who is our perfect match. But anytime we look outside of ourselves for fulfillment we miss out on the only place fulfillment can occur......and that is within. Just my take on things.

[Theateetetuig]

Palindromic I hear you! It's very easy for wanderers to get incredibly confused or misguided when it comes to passion. As you have found much of your focus is in your 6th chakra, the center of vision and structure. When dropping awareness down to that of the current earth, it is weird and often times not as you remember it from previous incarnations. In this world there are many physical restrictions that 6th dimensioners aren't used to. Time is also something that 6ers aren't used to.

Eventually you may come to see that compatibility and passion are not always the same. Likewise what we desire and what we achieve are not always the same.

And don't let the crazy waves of emotion drown you man, you will one day be free of them. So do what you can while your here, it's not forever, it just feels like it.

[Rapiddude]

Thank you apophis for your understanding and love!

That post you read was only half of it, it was my first post on here and I wasn't aware of the character limits!
Yes, it took me many years to see the difference between compatibility and passion. I feel I have gotten to the point where I see things much clearer now and I don't battle those issues nearly as much. I constantly remember my past relationships and how I acted and felt to better learn of myself.

I'll try to tell the rest of the story briefly.

I got to be with her for three days. Those three days were beautiful. I found that the love I had for her was simply unconditional. Not only was our compatibility nearly perfect, but we did share a lot of passion together. The moment we would see each other after several hours of being separate, it was in no way an infatuation type of feeling or a "OH MY GOD ITS YOU" feeling. It was more of a feeling of home. Security, comfort, peace and tranquility. I was able to breath again when I was in her presence.

I drove to her place thinking we were going to meditate in the park. I found her packing her bags. I did not cry, I did not argue. I drove her to the bus station myself.
She moved to Virginia for reasons unknown to her. when she left, I think we both figured out why she came to virginia for only one week.
She intended to stay in virginia much longer...but I think us meeting changed everything. I asked her on the car ride to the bus station if she was in love with me.
All she could do was just look at me and smile.

Last year, the year before that, and my entire life I was no ready for that experience. If I had to do last year what I did the other week, I would argue with her, manipulate her, become selfish and do everything I could to make sure she would never leave my sight. However the creator knew I was ready for this. Funny how I didn't even know I was ready for it. It becomes increasingly apparent why we couldn't meet until now. I have grown very much from it and meeting her has given me much joy.

Oh and yeah my 6th is really funny...that's another conversation completely haha

[MaigicyuNinia]

Well met, Palindromic. -And I wish you the very best in sorting out the romance/passion issues.
Passion was for me - eons ago, one of my ways into deep 3rd density... Coming up again now ;-) No regrets!

I'm 36 and very happily married to a very wonderful man - but sometimes I must admit questioning if he's my twin soul. If he isn't I don't care. I love him, and I have committed to him, and we have already spent many life times together. We're part of a group, where several group members remember life times with each other, which is a very nice feeling.

The longing for romance, I think, is a very human thing. And the idea that there is the One special person can both be a distraction and a blessing. We all have our different roads to walk while here, and we all have to find out what works for us. For my own part, I'm glad I'm with the man I'm with, and I'm very happy for the group of friends I'm incarnated with. And I will also tell you this - despite being a 6th level being and of a very high frequency - the body you have right now is still very young. Your brain will be fully developed some time round the age of 25. And as your brain matures, certain aspects of adjusting to a body and to hormones and longings and other things become easier to understand and adjust to. I for one really appreciate not being 21 any more! So give yourself lots of space and be very patient with yourself. The hunger for romance and love never really ends, but it gets a little easier to handle with age and maturity.

Another aspect I've found as I've come of age, is that the longing I sometimes mistook for a longing for romance when I was young, or the longing for my boyfriend and then husband - I can still feel that longing, even when my body is fully satisfied, my heart swims in Love and everything is perfect; family, our children, romance and all. And I realise that the longing isn't really for the perfect romantic union with a partner (since I already have that), but a longing for the total union with "Supreme Being"/God -(whatever you choose to call It). And that longing will only be fulfilled when the body is no more.

Having had a few drops of taste of what this union can be like during meditations and other experiences - I understand my own longing for it. But I'm here for the game and I'm not leaving. So instead I try and love that longing, and when it seeps into me, now and again, I give myself over to Supreme Being and sleep, or pull my daughters and husband closer. Giving birth and holding your very own new born baby in your arms for the first time, is the closest I've ever been to a complete and perfect union between heaven and earth :-)

You have so much to look forward to, my friend. Just be patient with yourself, and let life unfold in its own wonderful and mysterious ways! Trust your higher self, that the very best will unfold for you :-) Let go - and miracles happen.

Namaste

[doksSirmAdods]

I believe it is twin flames. i have one, and it is not a boyfriend (never has been for me) but my dearest and only friend of same sex (girl) i would die for her and, she would do the same for me, i truly love hear and i would do anything for her. our bond goes so mutch deeper then a normal friendship i can assure you. i know we have followed etchoder through many lifetimes.

[VeniHemealm]

...And I realise that the longing isn't really for the perfect romantic union with a partner (since I already have that), but a longing for the total union with "Supreme Being"/God -(whatever you choose to call It)
...

"But know, the soul is rather the soul-mate of the universal consciousness than of an individual entity." (2988-2)~Edgar Cayce

[ConoMadura]

Agreed, vanya. I do have a long way to go with the passion/romance in my life. I do struggle though with my location...I feel the reason the creator put me in this wretched college party town is cause I've always been one to have a yearning to "shine brighter in the dark".

I can see the point you are getting to as far as brain development and biochemistry. However I strongly believe everyone learns at different rates and things don't all just fall into place once you turn a certain age. Plus, the idea that my brain is going to get any smarter slightly disturbs me haha. I can barely control it as it is.

I've been reading "The art of loving" lately. It's an amazing book that I encourage everyone to give it a look if possible.

Blessings and thanks!

[GECEDEANY]

I believe it is twin flames. i have one, and it is not a boyfriend (never has been for me) but my dearest and only friend of same sex (girl) i would die for her and, she would do the same for me, i truly love hear and i would do anything for her. our bond goes so mutch deeper then a normal friendship i can assure you. i know we have followed etchoder through many lifetimes.

Thank you for bringing this up! ^^
We find a lot of people seem to get physical genders confused with energetic genders.
From our knowing, twin flames/souls are indeed one and the same being that has simply seperated into Masculine and Femenine counterparts. The gender of the physical container doesn't really matter, it's ones soul essence that counts; one person will always steer more towards one side of polarity than the other. It's all just a part of the seperation journey into this universe, part of the nature of Light: polarity, duality, and 'seperation'.

Having said that, we know that EVERY being has a twin flame/soul counterpart, however, ones masculine/femenine counterpart may not necessarily be also incarnated on earth at this time. They may very Well be on the other side of this universe for that matter, or perhaps in a higher dimensional reality (we know that our masculine counterpart is waiting for us on 5d earth ^^)
We find it rather interesting that David has never mentioned a thing about the twin flame energies, as we strongly feel its an important factor for this "Ascension". From our knowing, part of the organic Ascension process involves re-uniting with ones twin flame as one being again.
Okay, now you may be thinking "But what if my twin flame is on the other side of the universe? =O"
Well for that we can see one of a few scenarios:
1. Your twin flame makes it to 5d for the reuniting process when you too return to that point.
2. You simply havent seen and learned enough down here in the lower domains in order to "ascend" and become a creator of light. If this is the case for you, it's no big deal =) You'll just likely go through on the next cycle. If not, you'll go through on the cycle after that.
3. You will make it back to 5d, but your twin flame will remain down here in the lower dimensions to learn and experience more still. That just means you will be waiting for him/her up there in 5d, which won't be that long ;D (the flow of time behaves differently as you move up the dimensions of this uni-verse)

Whether you accept or decline our knowing is entirely up to you of course. Do what you wish with this knowledge, cause we honour and respect your own journey ^^