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**VEGLAS - SPB** · 02-11-2010, 12:50 PM

Hello all!

I have read extensively on the law of attration. I feel that I have worked hard on attracting the life I so desperately want. Yet my husband and I continnue to struggle.

I have even gone so far as to make a power point on exactly what I want to attract. This made it a lot easier for me to visualize, but my life does not reflect all that I desperatly try to aquire. I emontionlize my desire, I focus and I am very clear on how I'd like my life to be....but still barely getting by.

What am i doing wrong?

Thank you kindly, Leska

**gghrdfffhfyj** · 02-11-2010, 01:05 PM

I find what works with me leska is first having grattitude for what I already have, and mean it with all your heart, every day I give thanks for what I have, luck, blessings and seem to come my way always, I have about $20 in my bank account right now, and its been that way for many months, but I thank God daily .. for in every struggle or situation there are lessons to be learnt..

**VEGLAS - SPB** · 02-11-2010, 01:19 PM

Thank you for sharing!

I am greatful for our blessings, and I hope this is coming across. It just breaks my heart to watch my husband work so hard to provide for our family yet come up short. I wish he was happy with himself but he's not, I dont know how to help him.

Leska

**Freeptube** · 02-11-2010, 01:37 PM

Hello all!

I have read extensively on the law of attration. I feel that I have worked hard on attracting the life I so desperately want. Yet my husband and I continnue to struggle.

I have even gone so far as to make a power point on exactly what I want to attract. This made it a lot easier for me to visualize, but my life does not reflect all that I desperatly try to aquire. I emontionlize my desire, I focus and I am very clear on how I'd like my life to be....but still barely getting by.

What am i doing wrong?

Thank you kindly, Leska

The law of attraction is working for you just not in the way its been promoted through books.

You see you are pulling to yourself this struggle in-order to learn something. Its really your higher self who has control with manifestation and you have free will to face or avoid what comes your way. Struggle is a part of growing up, its how we deal with the struggle tells us how far along we've traveled on the evolutionary road.

Keep your head up hold on and this time will pass, try and focus on the good you have in your life.

By the way do you work ? or is it just your husband

**VEGLAS - SPB** · 02-11-2010, 02:05 PM

Thank U, for your kind words.

My husband is self employed, He is a low voltage tech for local businesses, I take care of the administrative aspect of the business from home, while I also take care of our three kids.

I guess your right, now in retrospect I dont really have a problem making things happen for me, to some extent. But this is where my problem lies. I want to dedicate my energy to my kids and family life but feel like I need to hold my husbands hand and guide him, but this is not working. What can I do? Not that I dont try, I do. How do you help another person to have self worth, and get rid of this block so he can bloom????

Leska

**Freeptube** · 02-11-2010, 02:17 PM

You need to let him grow, as you have seen holding his hand does you and him no good.

It seems your lesson here is about not having to be the savor, when we fall into this pattern we feel responsible for everyone around us, this creates a heavy burden on our soul. You are responsible for your children, as this is an agreement through the higher planes. But it is not your personal responsibility to carry your husband, for if you do you are doing him an injustice as he will never learn he is capable and strong enough.

I know its hard when we are programed sometimes it feels like for birth. We are told to be a good person we a have to put ourselves out, go that extra mile. But you are a good person you love your husband and care for him, you love your children and this is your job.

But your lesson is to let go and give your husband the space to grow and see where he ends up .I can assure you this is the plan.

**BinasiDombrs** · 02-11-2010, 10:22 PM

The law of attraction written in most books does not explain a lot of the mechanics behind it.

First of all you must believe without ANY doubt that what you want to manifest will. That you trust, no MATTER how it comes to you, that it will come.

I just recently finished writing this in my 3rd book, a workbook.

Your ego wants. A nice house, flashy cars, etc. A lot of people manifest from ego and then don't understand WHY it's not happening.

As you said you have been specific. Have you?

"We need 500.00 more a week to be able to comfortably provide shelter. If he could get some over time then we could easily make ends meet. Or I could get a part time job." etc.

The how you get it isn't important but the WHY you want it is.

ALSO it is all in DIVINE timing, not yours. I wanted a house. The apartment we had was too small and in a bad part of town. It took me 7 months of seeing it, meditating on the exact house, the surroundings, the interior, the layout. I finally made it happen though because I believed we already had it.
Hope that helps

**VEGLAS - SPB** · 02-12-2010, 06:24 AM

The law of attraction written in most books does not explain a lot of the mechanics behind it.

First of all you must believe without ANY doubt that what you want to manifest will. That you trust, no MATTER how it comes to you, that it will come.

I just recently finished writing this in my 3rd book, a workbook.

Your ego wants. A nice house, flashy cars, etc. A lot of people manifest from ego and then don't understand WHY it's not happening.

As you said you have been specific. Have you?

"We need 500.00 more a week to be able to comfortably provide shelter. If he could get some over time then we could easily make ends meet. Or I could get a part time job." etc.

The how you get it isn't important but the WHY you want it is.

ALSO it is all in DIVINE timing, not yours. I wanted a house. The apartment we had was too small and in a bad part of town. It took me 7 months of seeing it, meditating on the exact house, the surroundings, the interior, the layout. I finally made it happen though because I believed we already had it.
Hope that helps

Actually what I want is to pay our bills every month, be able to buy what we need, go on a family vacation once a year, have a nest egg and money for my kids education. Then there is the stuff I dream for; to create art that moves people, create literature that paints a picture, to be who I feel I am and share it and still be able to pay my bills.

Is this too much to ask for?

After reading the last 2 comments I had a conversation with my husband on how I might have failed him. You see...about 6 months ago he came to me crying asking for me to "make him better" (his words, not mine) I think he's the best person I have ever met. In terms of who he really is. What could I do...I researched online and found that through the recovery act we could qualify for a grant to pay for school. After speaking with him about this we enrolled him into a college course to become cisco certified to work on networks (CCNA) I prayed that he would do well and like the class. He is currently in a similar industry so I felt it would enhance his current knowledge. Now I feel like maybe I did him a diservice. Maybe I shouldnt have done anything. I just couldnt watch him wollow in pian. I know his heart is in music. He doesnt play an instrument, but would be a perfect fit for something like a sound engineer..or something like that. I try to excite him about going into this field but he tells me he has a family to support he cant dream about these things. I begged him to see the school advisor. He completed 6 yrs.of college before I met him but never graduated nonetheless he could use those classes he has already taken toward a degree in something more fitting. He said he didnt hate the CCNA cousre, its very hard but he has an A in the class. He is currently in the second of the four classes (2 semester course) The grant only paid for the 1st semester. So should I step away from this or start looking for a way to pay for it? I dont know what to do. I just dont want him to feel like a failure.

He really deserves greatness....please advise

Leska

**BinasiDombrs** · 02-12-2010, 06:30 AM

Well you dont have 20 posts for a reading and I don't think you understood that I was not directing any blame on you.

I was just giving you what Deepak Chopra wrote in his book;
The 7 spiritual laws to success.

**VEGLAS - SPB** · 02-12-2010, 06:31 AM

The law of attraction written in most books does not explain a lot of the mechanics behind it.

First of all you must believe without ANY doubt that what you want to manifest will. That you trust, no MATTER how it comes to you, that it will come.

I just recently finished writing this in my 3rd book, a workbook.

Your ego wants. A nice house, flashy cars, etc. A lot of people manifest from ego and then don't understand WHY it's not happening.

As you said you have been specific. Have you?

"We need 500.00 more a week to be able to comfortably provide shelter. If he could get some over time then we could easily make ends meet. Or I could get a part time job." etc.

The how you get it isn't important but the WHY you want it is.

ALSO it is all in DIVINE timing, not yours. I wanted a house. The apartment we had was too small and in a bad part of town. It took me 7 months of seeing it, meditating on the exact house, the surroundings, the interior, the layout. I finally made it happen though because I believed we already had it.
Hope that helps

Actually what I want is to pay our bills every month, be able to buy what we need, go on a family vacation once a year, have a nest egg and money for my kids education. Then there is the stuff I dream for; to create art that moves people, create literature that paints a picture, to be who I feel I am and share it and still be able to pay my bills.

Is this too much to ask for?

After reading the last 2 comments I had a conversation with my husband on how I might have failed him. You see...about 6 months ago he came to me crying asking for me to "make him better" (his words, not mine) I think he's the best person I have ever met. In terms of who he really is. What could I do...I researched online and found that through the recovery act we could qualify for a grant to pay for school. After speaking with him about this we enrolled him into a college course to become cisco certified to work on networks (CCNA) I prayed that he would do well and like the class. He is currently in a similar industry so I felt it would enhance his current knowledge. Now I feel like maybe I did him a diservice. Maybe I shouldnt have done anything. I just couldnt watch him wollow in pian. I know his heart is in music. He doesnt play an instrument, but would be a perfect fit for something like a sound engineer..or something like that. I try to excite him about going into this field but he tells me he has a family to support he cant dream about these things. I begged him to see the school advisor. He completed 6 yrs.of college before I met him but never graduated nonetheless he could use those credits he has already taken toward a degree in something more fitting. He said he didnt hate the CCNA course, its very hard but he has an A in the class. He is currently in the second of the four classes (2 semester course) The grant only paid for the 1st semester. So should I step away from this or start looking for a way to pay for it? I dont know what to do. I just dont want him to feel like a failure.

He really deserves greatness....please advise

Leska

**BinasiDombrs** · 02-12-2010, 06:45 AM

He really deserves greatness....please advise

Leska

I'm not sure why you reposted this... but you still haven't been here long enough for a reading.

**VEGLAS - SPB** · 03-11-2010, 08:37 AM

I'm not sure why you reposted this... but you still haven't been here long enough for a reading.

Sorry...didnt think I requested one. Just talking with those on the forum. Did I do something wrong?

Leska

**BinasiDombrs** · 03-11-2010, 08:41 AM

well I guess I thought that "Please advise" was looking for advice... my bad

**VEGLAS - SPB** · 03-11-2010, 09:02 AM

well I guess I thought that "Please advise" was looking for advice... my bad

I use that term all the time...but wasnt requesting a reading, I know the rules. I have been receiving information from people here as to how they have handled situations and that is what I was asking for. To be honest I dont think a reading would help. I had a reading about 2weeks ago and basicly it was more a confirmation on all I already know.

I jonied this forum because I'm feeling like myself again, more aware. You see when I was 16, 17 I had started to develop my intuition more in depth and took courses in kabbalah,and meditation. Things started to happen and I got spooked. So I have kind of put that side of me away, but now that I am allowing my creativity to take hold, my spiritual side is coming back, it's as if it were one....it seems a lot of things are coming to the surface.

Through this post I have been exploring my intuition etc.. Truly I am a bit overwhelmed and so I have been pouring things out that is very not like me. Didnt mean to over step.

Sorry, Leska

**Freeptube** · 03-11-2010, 11:02 AM

Leska,

I didn't take it you were asking for a reading, and its great your finding your way back to a more spiritual mind set.

But you many not want to hear this but I think under your cir***stances you may need to get a part-time job, as its a lot for your husband to carry alone, Schooling and work, that's hard.

**VEGLAS - SPB** · 03-11-2010, 11:45 AM

Leska,

I didn't take it you were asking for a reading, and its great your finding your way back to a more spiritual mind set.

But you many not want to hear this but I think under your cir***stances you may need to get a part-time job, as its a lot for your husband to carry alone, Schooling and work, that's hard.

Thank you...I kept reading it over and over again thinking I had done something wrong. One of my post posted twice..wierd

Your right thats not what I want to hear but that is how I feel as well. I have a Real Estate lic. and have been thinking of going back into the business...maybe just for rentals or something thats not 24/7 like it use to be.

Your thoughts are appreciated, it means so much to talk things out with people who are not in my circle, it provides a perspective that is invaluable.

Very appreciative Leska

**BinasiDombrs** · 03-11-2010, 11:57 PM

There is a lot of fear attached to your manifesting. the energy come from you in waves.

Though you may not know that some of what you "ask" for has ego attachments, it does.

Eckhart Tolle and Deepak Chopra are two very deep and interesting people when it comes to learning about ego and manifesting. You may want to try to understand what ego means. It goes deeper than just being "selfish" or wanting just to want. When you can remove the "I" from your manifesting...then you will truly receive abundance.

Count the "I"'s in your post. Very few "we" or "us". Do you see it?

**VEGLAS - SPB** · 03-12-2010, 06:49 AM

There is a lot of fear attached to your manifesting. the energy come from you in waves.

Though you may not know that some of what you "ask" for has ego attachments, it does.

Eckhart Tolle and Deepak Chopra are two very deep and interesting people when it comes to learning about ego and manifesting. You may want to try to understand what ego means. It goes deeper than just being "selfish" or wanting just to want. When you can remove the "I" from your manifesting...then you will truly receive abundance.

Count the "I"'s in your post. Very few "we" or "us". Do you see it?

Wow didnt see that, thank you for pointing that out!
Leska

**BinasiDombrs** · 03-12-2010, 07:27 AM

That's why we are here to help. Most of us do not realize how much our ego plays "head master" in our lives.

**KirillAristov** · 07-12-2010, 06:03 AM

Leska,

It seems you have done only half the work. The law of attraction works in three steps:

Ask - Believe - Allow

Most people ask and believe but they fail to release the desire and thought to the universe and allow it to happen. Instead they keep on 'wanting' and while they are wanting, they are not 'allowing' it to happen.

It seems you are feeling desperate as you constantly wish and want the change of lifestyle. You must RELEASE the desires and thoughts of change that you want with the belief they will eventually manifest. How quickly they manfiest depend on several factors which you've probably read about by now.

Do not say "Is that too much to ask for?" - Nothing is too much, you can have what you want in life so do not allow doubts to set in. Do not settle for less just because 'it'll do for now'. Ask for the changes you want, imagine them, believe it, and then let it go. Send the wish out to the universe and ALLOW the universe to manifest your wish.

You must have faith in what you are doing and asking for. If you keep thinking "we never make ends meet", you never will because that is what you are constantly focusing on. Therefore the universe is giving you just that.

I hope this information is helpful for you.

Regards,
clearfog

02-11-2010, 12:50 PM	#1
VEGLAS - SPB Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 524 Senior Member	law of attraction? Hello all! I have read extensively on the law of attration. I feel that I have worked hard on attracting the life I so desperately want. Yet my husband and I continnue to struggle. I have even gone so far as to make a power point on exactly what I want to attract. This made it a lot easier for me to visualize, but my life does not reflect all that I desperatly try to aquire. I emontionlize my desire, I focus and I am very clear on how I'd like my life to be....but still barely getting by. What am i doing wrong? Thank you kindly, Leska Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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02-11-2010, 01:05 PM	#2
gghrdfffhfyj Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 468 Senior Member	I find what works with me leska is first having grattitude for what I already have, and mean it with all your heart, every day I give thanks for what I have, luck, blessings and seem to come my way always, I have about $20 in my bank account right now, and its been that way for many months, but I thank God daily .. for in every struggle or situation there are lessons to be learnt.. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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02-11-2010, 01:19 PM	#3
VEGLAS - SPB Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 524 Senior Member	Thank you for sharing! I am greatful for our blessings, and I hope this is coming across. It just breaks my heart to watch my husband work so hard to provide for our family yet come up short. I wish he was happy with himself but he's not, I dont know how to help him. Leska Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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02-11-2010, 01:37 PM	#4
Freeptube Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 589 Senior Member	Hello all! I have read extensively on the law of attration. I feel that I have worked hard on attracting the life I so desperately want. Yet my husband and I continnue to struggle. I have even gone so far as to make a power point on exactly what I want to attract. This made it a lot easier for me to visualize, but my life does not reflect all that I desperatly try to aquire. I emontionlize my desire, I focus and I am very clear on how I'd like my life to be....but still barely getting by. What am i doing wrong? Thank you kindly, Leska The law of attraction is working for you just not in the way its been promoted through books. You see you are pulling to yourself this struggle in-order to learn something. Its really your higher self who has control with manifestation and you have free will to face or avoid what comes your way. Struggle is a part of growing up, its how we deal with the struggle tells us how far along we've traveled on the evolutionary road. Keep your head up hold on and this time will pass, try and focus on the good you have in your life. By the way do you work ? or is it just your husband Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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02-11-2010, 02:05 PM	#5
VEGLAS - SPB Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 524 Senior Member	Thank U, for your kind words. My husband is self employed, He is a low voltage tech for local businesses, I take care of the administrative aspect of the business from home, while I also take care of our three kids. I guess your right, now in retrospect I dont really have a problem making things happen for me, to some extent. But this is where my problem lies. I want to dedicate my energy to my kids and family life but feel like I need to hold my husbands hand and guide him, but this is not working. What can I do? Not that I dont try, I do. How do you help another person to have self worth, and get rid of this block so he can bloom???? Leska Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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02-11-2010, 02:17 PM	#6
Freeptube Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 589 Senior Member	You need to let him grow, as you have seen holding his hand does you and him no good. It seems your lesson here is about not having to be the savor, when we fall into this pattern we feel responsible for everyone around us, this creates a heavy burden on our soul. You are responsible for your children, as this is an agreement through the higher planes. But it is not your personal responsibility to carry your husband, for if you do you are doing him an injustice as he will never learn he is capable and strong enough. I know its hard when we are programed sometimes it feels like for birth. We are told to be a good person we a have to put ourselves out, go that extra mile. But you are a good person you love your husband and care for him, you love your children and this is your job. But your lesson is to let go and give your husband the space to grow and see where he ends up .I can assure you this is the plan. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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02-11-2010, 10:22 PM	#7
BinasiDombrs Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 619 Senior Member	The law of attraction written in most books does not explain a lot of the mechanics behind it. First of all you must believe without ANY doubt that what you want to manifest will. That you trust, no MATTER how it comes to you, that it will come. I just recently finished writing this in my 3rd book, a workbook. Your ego wants. A nice house, flashy cars, etc. A lot of people manifest from ego and then don't understand WHY it's not happening. As you said you have been specific. Have you? "We need 500.00 more a week to be able to comfortably provide shelter. If he could get some over time then we could easily make ends meet. Or I could get a part time job." etc. The how you get it isn't important but the WHY you want it is. ALSO it is all in DIVINE timing, not yours. I wanted a house. The apartment we had was too small and in a bad part of town. It took me 7 months of seeing it, meditating on the exact house, the surroundings, the interior, the layout. I finally made it happen though because I believed we already had it. Hope that helps Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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02-12-2010, 06:24 AM	#8
VEGLAS - SPB Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 524 Senior Member	The law of attraction written in most books does not explain a lot of the mechanics behind it. First of all you must believe without ANY doubt that what you want to manifest will. That you trust, no MATTER how it comes to you, that it will come. I just recently finished writing this in my 3rd book, a workbook. Your ego wants. A nice house, flashy cars, etc. A lot of people manifest from ego and then don't understand WHY it's not happening. As you said you have been specific. Have you? "We need 500.00 more a week to be able to comfortably provide shelter. If he could get some over time then we could easily make ends meet. Or I could get a part time job." etc. The how you get it isn't important but the WHY you want it is. ALSO it is all in DIVINE timing, not yours. I wanted a house. The apartment we had was too small and in a bad part of town. It took me 7 months of seeing it, meditating on the exact house, the surroundings, the interior, the layout. I finally made it happen though because I believed we already had it. Hope that helps Actually what I want is to pay our bills every month, be able to buy what we need, go on a family vacation once a year, have a nest egg and money for my kids education. Then there is the stuff I dream for; to create art that moves people, create literature that paints a picture, to be who I feel I am and share it and still be able to pay my bills. Is this too much to ask for? After reading the last 2 comments I had a conversation with my husband on how I might have failed him. You see...about 6 months ago he came to me crying asking for me to "make him better" (his words, not mine) I think he's the best person I have ever met. In terms of who he really is. What could I do...I researched online and found that through the recovery act we could qualify for a grant to pay for school. After speaking with him about this we enrolled him into a college course to become cisco certified to work on networks (CCNA) I prayed that he would do well and like the class. He is currently in a similar industry so I felt it would enhance his current knowledge. Now I feel like maybe I did him a diservice. Maybe I shouldnt have done anything. I just couldnt watch him wollow in pian. I know his heart is in music. He doesnt play an instrument, but would be a perfect fit for something like a sound engineer..or something like that. I try to excite him about going into this field but he tells me he has a family to support he cant dream about these things. I begged him to see the school advisor. He completed 6 yrs.of college before I met him but never graduated nonetheless he could use those classes he has already taken toward a degree in something more fitting. He said he didnt hate the CCNA cousre, its very hard but he has an A in the class. He is currently in the second of the four classes (2 semester course) The grant only paid for the 1st semester. So should I step away from this or start looking for a way to pay for it? I dont know what to do. I just dont want him to feel like a failure. He really deserves greatness....please advise Leska Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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02-12-2010, 06:30 AM	#9
BinasiDombrs Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 619 Senior Member	Well you dont have 20 posts for a reading and I don't think you understood that I was not directing any blame on you. I was just giving you what Deepak Chopra wrote in his book; The 7 spiritual laws to success. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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02-12-2010, 06:31 AM	#10
VEGLAS - SPB Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 524 Senior Member	The law of attraction written in most books does not explain a lot of the mechanics behind it. First of all you must believe without ANY doubt that what you want to manifest will. That you trust, no MATTER how it comes to you, that it will come. I just recently finished writing this in my 3rd book, a workbook. Your ego wants. A nice house, flashy cars, etc. A lot of people manifest from ego and then don't understand WHY it's not happening. As you said you have been specific. Have you? "We need 500.00 more a week to be able to comfortably provide shelter. If he could get some over time then we could easily make ends meet. Or I could get a part time job." etc. The how you get it isn't important but the WHY you want it is. ALSO it is all in DIVINE timing, not yours. I wanted a house. The apartment we had was too small and in a bad part of town. It took me 7 months of seeing it, meditating on the exact house, the surroundings, the interior, the layout. I finally made it happen though because I believed we already had it. Hope that helps Actually what I want is to pay our bills every month, be able to buy what we need, go on a family vacation once a year, have a nest egg and money for my kids education. Then there is the stuff I dream for; to create art that moves people, create literature that paints a picture, to be who I feel I am and share it and still be able to pay my bills. Is this too much to ask for? After reading the last 2 comments I had a conversation with my husband on how I might have failed him. You see...about 6 months ago he came to me crying asking for me to "make him better" (his words, not mine) I think he's the best person I have ever met. In terms of who he really is. What could I do...I researched online and found that through the recovery act we could qualify for a grant to pay for school. After speaking with him about this we enrolled him into a college course to become cisco certified to work on networks (CCNA) I prayed that he would do well and like the class. He is currently in a similar industry so I felt it would enhance his current knowledge. Now I feel like maybe I did him a diservice. Maybe I shouldnt have done anything. I just couldnt watch him wollow in pian. I know his heart is in music. He doesnt play an instrument, but would be a perfect fit for something like a sound engineer..or something like that. I try to excite him about going into this field but he tells me he has a family to support he cant dream about these things. I begged him to see the school advisor. He completed 6 yrs.of college before I met him but never graduated nonetheless he could use those credits he has already taken toward a degree in something more fitting. He said he didnt hate the CCNA course, its very hard but he has an A in the class. He is currently in the second of the four classes (2 semester course) The grant only paid for the 1st semester. So should I step away from this or start looking for a way to pay for it? I dont know what to do. I just dont want him to feel like a failure. He really deserves greatness....please advise Leska Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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02-12-2010, 06:45 AM	#11
BinasiDombrs Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 619 Senior Member	He really deserves greatness....please advise Leska I'm not sure why you reposted this... but you still haven't been here long enough for a reading. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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03-11-2010, 08:37 AM	#12
VEGLAS - SPB Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 524 Senior Member	I'm not sure why you reposted this... but you still haven't been here long enough for a reading. Sorry...didnt think I requested one. Just talking with those on the forum. Did I do something wrong? Leska Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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03-11-2010, 08:41 AM	#13
BinasiDombrs Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 619 Senior Member	well I guess I thought that "Please advise" was looking for advice... my bad Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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03-11-2010, 09:02 AM	#14
VEGLAS - SPB Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 524 Senior Member	well I guess I thought that "Please advise" was looking for advice... my bad I use that term all the time...but wasnt requesting a reading, I know the rules. I have been receiving information from people here as to how they have handled situations and that is what I was asking for. To be honest I dont think a reading would help. I had a reading about 2weeks ago and basicly it was more a confirmation on all I already know. I jonied this forum because I'm feeling like myself again, more aware. You see when I was 16, 17 I had started to develop my intuition more in depth and took courses in kabbalah,and meditation. Things started to happen and I got spooked. So I have kind of put that side of me away, but now that I am allowing my creativity to take hold, my spiritual side is coming back, it's as if it were one....it seems a lot of things are coming to the surface. Through this post I have been exploring my intuition etc.. Truly I am a bit overwhelmed and so I have been pouring things out that is very not like me. Didnt mean to over step. Sorry, Leska Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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03-11-2010, 11:02 AM	#15
Freeptube Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 589 Senior Member	Leska, I didn't take it you were asking for a reading, and its great your finding your way back to a more spiritual mind set. But you many not want to hear this but I think under your cir***stances you may need to get a part-time job, as its a lot for your husband to carry alone, Schooling and work, that's hard. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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03-11-2010, 11:45 AM	#16
VEGLAS - SPB Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 524 Senior Member	Leska, I didn't take it you were asking for a reading, and its great your finding your way back to a more spiritual mind set. But you many not want to hear this but I think under your cir***stances you may need to get a part-time job, as its a lot for your husband to carry alone, Schooling and work, that's hard. Thank you...I kept reading it over and over again thinking I had done something wrong. One of my post posted twice..wierd Your right thats not what I want to hear but that is how I feel as well. I have a Real Estate lic. and have been thinking of going back into the business...maybe just for rentals or something thats not 24/7 like it use to be. Your thoughts are appreciated, it means so much to talk things out with people who are not in my circle, it provides a perspective that is invaluable. Very appreciative Leska Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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03-11-2010, 11:57 PM	#17
BinasiDombrs Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 619 Senior Member	There is a lot of fear attached to your manifesting. the energy come from you in waves. Though you may not know that some of what you "ask" for has ego attachments, it does. Eckhart Tolle and Deepak Chopra are two very deep and interesting people when it comes to learning about ego and manifesting. You may want to try to understand what ego means. It goes deeper than just being "selfish" or wanting just to want. When you can remove the "I" from your manifesting...then you will truly receive abundance. Count the "I"'s in your post. Very few "we" or "us". Do you see it? Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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03-12-2010, 06:49 AM	#18
VEGLAS - SPB Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 524 Senior Member	There is a lot of fear attached to your manifesting. the energy come from you in waves. Though you may not know that some of what you "ask" for has ego attachments, it does. Eckhart Tolle and Deepak Chopra are two very deep and interesting people when it comes to learning about ego and manifesting. You may want to try to understand what ego means. It goes deeper than just being "selfish" or wanting just to want. When you can remove the "I" from your manifesting...then you will truly receive abundance. Count the "I"'s in your post. Very few "we" or "us". Do you see it? Wow didnt see that, thank you for pointing that out! Leska Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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03-12-2010, 07:27 AM	#19
BinasiDombrs Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 619 Senior Member	That's why we are here to help. Most of us do not realize how much our ego plays "head master" in our lives. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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07-12-2010, 06:03 AM	#20
KirillAristov Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 437 Senior Member	Leska, It seems you have done only half the work. The law of attraction works in three steps: Ask - Believe - Allow Most people ask and believe but they fail to release the desire and thought to the universe and allow it to happen. Instead they keep on 'wanting' and while they are wanting, they are not 'allowing' it to happen. It seems you are feeling desperate as you constantly wish and want the change of lifestyle. You must RELEASE the desires and thoughts of change that you want with the belief they will eventually manifest. How quickly they manfiest depend on several factors which you've probably read about by now. Do not say "Is that too much to ask for?" - Nothing is too much, you can have what you want in life so do not allow doubts to set in. Do not settle for less just because 'it'll do for now'. Ask for the changes you want, imagine them, believe it, and then let it go. Send the wish out to the universe and ALLOW the universe to manifest your wish. You must have faith in what you are doing and asking for. If you keep thinking "we never make ends meet", you never will because that is what you are constantly focusing on. Therefore the universe is giving you just that. I hope this information is helpful for you. Regards, clearfog Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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