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**MondayBlues** · 05-02-2009, 04:26 AM

Hello all,

Well, for over 10 years, I have been very good friends with a male, there has always been a connection but due to our age/cir***stances nothing ever came of it. we used to write letters to each other and everything, so romantic looking back!! We have not seen each other for a couple of years and recently met up. It was amazing. The connection is unbelievable. Everything is perfect except...he is studying miles away(about 5 hours travel). We both feel upset because cir***stances are against us again and we have both waited years for this. He is back in easter hols, and every now and again, where we have of course arranged to meet up and see what happens but i dont know what to do. id love nothing more than to be with him, but he is away a lot and everything. its also only because, as i say we were childhood sweethearts!!

Although he thinks the world of me and in his own words has said he has waited a long time for this, he is so much more wary about giving it a go than i am, wondering if i will find someone else in that time (no matter how much i reassure him) and just him not being happy at all about the cir***stance. I would love to move up to be with him, but I have too much going on here with me and cir***stances mean I cant and will not be leaving here. I am fully up for giving this a go, but he is much more wary and worried. Looking into it, im not sure if this is just because of him being like his star sign or not! If its any help as well, I am aries and he is taurus. I do not rule my life by star signs at all, I just find it interesting looking about them.

**UitEz0Qo** · 05-02-2009, 04:35 AM

Hi running free

Glad to see you here with us...

I feel that there is something that is blocking the two of you... Not sure which of you it is... maybe a little of both of you.

There is some-one else who is close to you, but you only see them as a true friend because of your feelings for this person. I really hope this does happen and things work out for you, as I always wish for things to happen when people give their heart out for, but to be honest with you... its not going to happen between the two of you, as you are both holding back.... and still living separate lives..... and their is that block that I mentioned....

(Actions sometimes speak louder than words.....)

Peace and Blessings to you

**MondayBlues** · 05-02-2009, 05:16 AM

Hello! Nice to meet you (as such!) There is someone else I know around me who is a good friend0not sure if its who you are thinking of. I have mentioned to him recently about things possibly developing, but although I know he likes me, he seems very unenthusiastic and shy and I tried but got no where, so I thought whats the point. This is the weird thing, after I decided this, this is when the 'taurus' came back home and I met up with him. Don't get me wrong, I do not have feelings for loads of random people, I am quite a picky person. I have known both of these for a while.

I appreciate all you are saying, do you think for sure the taurus and I will never be? I know he thinks the world of me and would love to be with me, its just the long distance cir***stance.....

**UitEz0Qo** · 05-02-2009, 06:45 AM

Hello! Nice to meet you (as such!) There is someone else I know around me who is a good friend0not sure if its who you are thinking of. I have mentioned to him recently about things possibly developing, but although I know he likes me, he seems very unenthusiastic and shy and I tried but got no where, so I thought whats the point. This is the weird thing, after I decided this, this is when the 'taurus' came back home and I met up with him. Don't get me wrong, I do not have feelings for loads of random people, I am quite a picky person. I have known both of these for a while.

I appreciate all you are saying, do you think for sure the taurus and I will never be? I know he thinks the world of me and would love to be with me, its just the long distance cir***stance.....

Does this person close to you, know of your feelings for this other "taurus" and if so, this is maybe why the distance... and then when this 'taurus' turned back up again... maybe he saw your true feelings and thats really not fair... its really quiet sad for you to....

Hope you find peace in your heart...

Blessings

**MondayBlues** · 06-01-2009, 01:13 PM

No he does not know my feelings for this other person. Like you said that would be very unfair. He has always shown some sort of distance, either he cant be bothered or is too shy! I am so confused I am sure these things come to test us! Just feel something so strong for the "taurus"...

05-02-2009, 04:26 AM	#1
MondayBlues Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 429 Senior Member	Long distance relationship..... Hello all, Well, for over 10 years, I have been very good friends with a male, there has always been a connection but due to our age/cir*stances nothing ever came of it. we used to write letters to each other and everything, so romantic looking back!! We have not seen each other for a couple of years and recently met up. It was amazing. The connection is unbelievable. Everything is perfect except...he is studying miles away(about 5 hours travel). We both feel upset because cirstances are against us again and we have both waited years for this. He is back in easter hols, and every now and again, where we have of course arranged to meet up and see what happens but i dont know what to do. id love nothing more than to be with him, but he is away a lot and everything. its also only because, as i say we were childhood sweethearts!! Although he thinks the world of me and in his own words has said he has waited a long time for this, he is so much more wary about giving it a go than i am, wondering if i will find someone else in that time (no matter how much i reassure him) and just him not being happy at all about the cirstance. I would love to move up to be with him, but I have too much going on here with me and cir*stances mean I cant and will not be leaving here. I am fully up for giving this a go, but he is much more wary and worried. Looking into it, im not sure if this is just because of him being like his star sign or not! If its any help as well, I am aries and he is taurus. I do not rule my life by star signs at all, I just find it interesting looking about them. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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05-02-2009, 04:35 AM	#2
UitEz0Qo Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 325 Senior Member	Hi running free Glad to see you here with us... I feel that there is something that is blocking the two of you... Not sure which of you it is... maybe a little of both of you. There is some-one else who is close to you, but you only see them as a true friend because of your feelings for this person. I really hope this does happen and things work out for you, as I always wish for things to happen when people give their heart out for, but to be honest with you... its not going to happen between the two of you, as you are both holding back.... and still living separate lives..... and their is that block that I mentioned.... (Actions sometimes speak louder than words.....) Peace and Blessings to you Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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05-02-2009, 05:16 AM	#3
MondayBlues Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 429 Senior Member	Hello! Nice to meet you (as such!) There is someone else I know around me who is a good friend0not sure if its who you are thinking of. I have mentioned to him recently about things possibly developing, but although I know he likes me, he seems very unenthusiastic and shy and I tried but got no where, so I thought whats the point. This is the weird thing, after I decided this, this is when the 'taurus' came back home and I met up with him. Don't get me wrong, I do not have feelings for loads of random people, I am quite a picky person. I have known both of these for a while. I appreciate all you are saying, do you think for sure the taurus and I will never be? I know he thinks the world of me and would love to be with me, its just the long distance cir***stance..... Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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05-02-2009, 06:45 AM	#4
UitEz0Qo Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 325 Senior Member	Hello! Nice to meet you (as such!) There is someone else I know around me who is a good friend0not sure if its who you are thinking of. I have mentioned to him recently about things possibly developing, but although I know he likes me, he seems very unenthusiastic and shy and I tried but got no where, so I thought whats the point. This is the weird thing, after I decided this, this is when the 'taurus' came back home and I met up with him. Don't get me wrong, I do not have feelings for loads of random people, I am quite a picky person. I have known both of these for a while. I appreciate all you are saying, do you think for sure the taurus and I will never be? I know he thinks the world of me and would love to be with me, its just the long distance cir***stance..... Does this person close to you, know of your feelings for this other "taurus" and if so, this is maybe why the distance... and then when this 'taurus' turned back up again... maybe he saw your true feelings and thats really not fair... its really quiet sad for you to.... Hope you find peace in your heart... Blessings Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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06-01-2009, 01:13 PM	#5
MondayBlues Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 429 Senior Member	No he does not know my feelings for this other person. Like you said that would be very unfair. He has always shown some sort of distance, either he cant be bothered or is too shy! I am so confused I am sure these things come to test us! Just feel something so strong for the "taurus"... Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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