[LesLattis]

If I had a car and my mom would let Sam come, it would be a whole other story.

But once my husband and Sam are closer to the border and Im stable enough to move out on my own Im bringing her up!!

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[Maserati]

your BIL needs an ass whooping idk how and why you guys put up with him

[boleroman]

I didn't read why you cannot take Sam with you...?

Because Im flying and I dont think her Mexican vet record will be accepted by airlines in the US. Also because Ill need to stay with my mom for financial help and help with the baby since I will be w/o husband... And she has 3 cats and said no Sam plus even if her vet records worked we dont have the extra money for the pet costs on plane.

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[CitsMoise17]

Put a lock on the gate only you have a key to. Either they'll get sick of asking you to open and close it for them and develop some common sense or you'll be aggravated by the inconvenience, but sure your dog doesn't get loose.

I believe in tough love, lol. "You can't be responsible with a gate? Fine, then I'll treat you like a bunch of kids, install a lock, wear a key around my neck, and you'll have to ask me to let you in and out."

Excellent idea!!

[immoceefe]

chain the dog up that is the best and safest way of containment.

[jdynwa]

Do they respect your husband who loves you?
I agree with a lock on the gate in general, not just for your husbands bil and friends but any person like a mailman could open the gate and leave it swinging in the wind. Let thus one pass and find some excuse to lock the gate based on someone other than them leaving the gate open. Or put the respect issue onto your husband, if they don't respect you and your dog they are not respecting him as well.

Lol, you could always tell him it's time to move again to a more secure and safe location. Or just put a lock on the gate.
Best of luck.

[mikelangr]

D: And this is who you are going to leave sam with? I hope not D:

[iceleliewBync]

Or better, Sam doesn't go out without a lash?

Im thinking this is what Ill have to do. Especially after the roof-suicide-bomber incident too lol. It just sucks because I was so excited to have a gated in property so that she COULD go outside without a leash all the time. Siiighh... Oh well, I guess its just her fate to be leashed or locked up I just wanted her to have some space to be freeeee in.

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[engideNedmupe]

They can't be trusted with the things YOU love ?!?!?! They don't respect you or Sam.