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Old 08-28-2012, 04:53 PM   #1
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so my roommate is gone, he was hauled off to jail today, and his mom told me to leave him in there, she is comming for his dogs saturday. now me and the other roommate has the option to take over the lease or find new places to live, so i dont know what to do, my friend aid i could live with them rent free, but i have to get rid of calvin so that is out of the question, this is the person that told me to beat calvin for doing something wrong, anyways, i have till the 15th to deciede what im doing, i like this house and the location but im going to see what else is out there, and that will except calvin, cause i am not getting rid of him
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Old 08-28-2012, 05:10 PM   #2
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Im glad you've decided to do right by Calvin and figure out a new plan! Hopefully you can find a better place to live, and if not then I hope you and your roommate can manage to take over the lease! Good luck and keep us updated!!
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Old 08-28-2012, 05:27 PM   #3
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i would never get rid of calvin i love him too much, the thing is my rooommate took my money that i paid for next months rent and didnt pay rent yet and now he is gone, but i will figure something out where i can keep both dogs and they will be happy. with those other 2 dogs gone and my roommate gone, i could move to the room by the door to the outside and they could have free rain of going in and out while im home, we will see though, i will keep yall updated
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Old 08-28-2012, 06:08 PM   #4
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Good luck in figuring out what to do. I know the stress it can put on people when they are in a bind like that. Glad you are keeping Calvin.
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Old 08-28-2012, 06:21 PM   #5
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Talk to his mom and see if she will have access to his accounts. Is what I would do and get my rent back.
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Old 08-28-2012, 07:02 PM   #6
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I would try and find a place you can afford on your own.
Seems like all the roommates you pick are fucked.
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Old 08-28-2012, 07:37 PM   #7
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well i have a felony on my record so its that much harder to find a place, the places that take pits, dont take felons, the places that take felons dont take pits, soooo thats why i do roommates. or i would.
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Old 08-28-2012, 07:42 PM   #8
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Not trying to pry, but my BIL has a felony and not had too many problems with rentals. Private landlords, chat and make friendly, explain the situation and the circumstances around the felony and how you have grown, matured, changed, whatever.. voila! rental.

It's always best to do what you can to live in your own place even if its not as nice as you would like or not as close to work/family/school as you'd like. It's truly worth the inconvenience to not have to deal with other people's irresponsibility, annoying behaviors, them messing with your stuff and your pets etc.

I said it a long time ago and I meant it enough to do it. I'd rather live by myself in the ghetto than share space again. My husband and kids are damn lucky I let them live with me, lol.
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Old 08-28-2012, 07:48 PM   #9
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Having a felony sure is a hassle huh good luck with your search

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Old 08-28-2012, 09:44 PM   #10
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Take a difficult to place dog like a pit bull, add a convicted felon as an owner, throw in rental property, multiple room mates, at least one who has problems with the law and their family, add some drama and mix it all up. It doesn't take a genius to see this is a recipe for trouble.Too bad some dogs are going to suffer for the short comings of their humans. Pit bulls seem to be the breed of choice for these stereotypical situations. Just one more strike against them.

To the OP what would ever cause you to think this is a good living situation for dog ownership, especially pit bull ownership. I guess another pit bull is in need of a home. I realize bad shit can happen to anybody but what about this situation looked remotely stable or lasting to begin with?
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Old 08-28-2012, 11:13 PM   #11
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Isn't Calvin an unstable fearful dog, too?

Good luck.
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Old 08-29-2012, 12:21 AM   #12
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I agree with Atheist on this one. What ever made you think your situation was a good situation for a dog let alone a pit bull. Then on top of that you have posted many times about Calvin being a VERY fearful dog who clearly needs a SAFE and STABLE environment. Nothing you have posted about the environment you live in seems safe or stable in anyway.

Do what you can do get place on your own like MJJean said so your dog doesn't get attacked by a room mates dog again or something even worse.
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Old 08-29-2012, 12:45 AM   #13
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Sometimes I think the best thing pit bull owners can do for this breed is be very hard on other pit bull owners to understand, and live up to the expectations for responsible ownership. That is why I post so much about containing and preventing your pit bull from interacting with other animals regardless of how much anybody believes they can control and manage the situation. In the end we all suffer. You want to have multiple animals on your own property, fine take your chances. As soon as you endanger other animals besides your own, every pit bull owner should speak up and let you know how irresponsible you are and how you are endangering their right to have a pit bull.
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Old 08-29-2012, 02:27 AM   #14
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im not looking for a shoulder to cry on, i have options i was just stressed out, calvin has made alot of imporvments with me and will continue to do so, i can find other places to live that is not really an issue and have one lined up that i am going to go to, my dog doesnt have any interactions with the other dogs here, except when she came home with him and came in when calvin was out of the room with me, other than that there is no contact with other dogs, so you should know what the hell you are saying before you say something, yes i am a felon, i got charged as an adult at 15 for using a stool in a fight someone else started who was twice the size of me, calvin doess great with me and has stated one on one training with my friend who trains dogs, my roommate is a great guy and i have no clue how this could have happened seeing as he never leaves the house but that is besides the point, my enviroment is stable, we have a routine and follow it every day and will continue to do so. he doesnt come in contact with the other dogs here as i said before, and the place im going to go check out tomorrow has a big back yard and no dogs, i took calvin because i didnt want him to go to the humane society and sit there for months on end and not get adopted then be killed. he has flourished with me, yes he has problems but we are working on them and he may not overcome all of them but that is something only time will tell.
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Old 08-29-2012, 02:45 AM   #15
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This is a tough spot you are in... I think if it were me, I'd see if I could find someone that could foster him for you for a bit until you can get on your feet and offer a more stable home... and I would definitely try to find a place of my own. No roommate= no one spending the rent money for anything other than what it's meant for.
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Old 08-29-2012, 03:00 AM   #16
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i didnt even think of having someone foster him for a month or so, that is something i will think of for sure, thank you
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Old 08-31-2012, 03:03 PM   #17
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Keep us updated and let us know what happens... best of luck to you and your pup.
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Old 08-31-2012, 07:19 PM   #18
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im moving in with this older couple who is renting a room out, they have a back yard and no other pets, i explained a little bit bout clavin and they are ok with him, im already in the process of moving,
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