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Greetings.

I was very careful not to follow anything from the home I grew up in. I experienced the art of 'how not treat a child' from there. By carefully avoiding every single thing I went through, we could support and cherish our children meaningfully. Now we are glad our children hopefully would follow our examples or better when supporting their future children. If we are around, we will help for that too.

The OP may be good for few persons. Unfortunately, my own life was the exact opposite. Personally, none of the points matched; but then I won't wish such a life to anybody.

Cheers!