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Thanks sudeshwarji. It is universal phenomenon that the children lean more on their mothers with attachment and confide everthing

personal or official matters to them. Fathers' role becomes limited and helpless. Naturally fathers get disenchanted more often


than not with pent up emotions and feelings. Children tend to forget the hard efforts put in by both fathers and mothers in bringing them up
.If children listen to their mothers' advice ,it is time that mothers should educate on their children now and then .. Another noticeable

feature in children is that once they get married they change their outlook. I would not say that it is due to the influence of their wives but

it is a natural adoption everywhere. It is generally observed that daughters are closer to their fathers as the sons to their mothers.


It is difficult rather impractical to expect your grown up children to fall in line with your expectations or desires; in such circumstances

mothers predicament is understandable. Unless wisdom dawns on the children it is no use feeling remorseful and it is advised


to be silent most of the time; this would not only gain respect for you but produce a feeling of awe.

PC RAMABADRAN