I'm getting married to my girlfriend in May 2007. She is the middle daughter (out of three daughters) and both of her parents are deceased. I'm unsure if I'll even pay sinsod in the first place. My girl told me I would pay something then they would give it back to us and if THAT'S the case then sure, I can fork over 450,000B - no problem buddy! However, if they plan on keeping that, then there is no possible way I can afford it. My girl knows how hard I work and she especially knows how dangerous my job is.