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**poulaMahmah** · 11-04-2010, 07:39 AM

You're welcome. But warn your friend though that the mother can resurface and make things ugly, especially if she's unbalanced. It's a good idea to get out of as many of the public databases as possible (Lexis-Nexus, Choicepoint, Intelius, do the Junkbuster's thing, etc.) It's sad, but family courts are often run by the most incompetent boobs. Hopefully you're friend and their child will never have to deal with the mother, but it's better to play defensively.

The mother has given up all her rights and the child legally adopted by her new family. The adoption was done in I think Ohio, which has some interesting legalities around paternal rights...something like if the father does not claim the child at birth or before his rights are legally terminated. in this case it's unlikely the guy even knew he had fathered a child..

11-04-2010, 07:39 AM	#25
poulaMahmah Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 478 Senior Member	You're welcome. But warn your friend though that the mother can resurface and make things ugly, especially if she's unbalanced. It's a good idea to get out of as many of the public databases as possible (Lexis-Nexus, Choicepoint, Intelius, do the Junkbuster's thing, etc.) It's sad, but family courts are often run by the most incompetent boobs. Hopefully you're friend and their child will never have to deal with the mother, but it's better to play defensively. The mother has given up all her rights and the child legally adopted by her new family. The adoption was done in I think Ohio, which has some interesting legalities around paternal rights...something like if the father does not claim the child at birth or before his rights are legally terminated. in this case it's unlikely the guy even knew he had fathered a child..
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