My answer is that at this moment I don't know why am I living here (besides DR being my wife's homeland, but if that would be a reason living in my country would be equally valid). The reason to come was 100% love of a woman, but we are realizing each day more that with three small children maybe it was not the smartest move to go back living in DR. If my wife would tell me she really can't handle living in Europe I wouldn't doubt staying here forever, but since she is aware of the difficulties of raising children here, going back is an option.