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alfmom... so sorry to hear about the loss of your son. Our friends lost their son years ago and our neighbors lost theirs last year. I would never tell anyone it gets easier. But from what they tell me... you just end up finding a way to live with it. And that only happens because you simply have no other choice but to learn. So let me send you some cyber hugs ::::hugs:::: and hope that today is a day that living with it is possible.

I can certainly understand your emotinal eating. If you do, please don't beat yourself up over it. This, too, is part of the process of learning to live with it. I can't imagine your pain. It hurts to even think about it.

Tril