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**QqJamxqP** · 08-29-2007, 05:39 AM

Bree, you are right. When I cheated, I planned the day and time on which I got together with the om. I had an evening away from home planned already and took advantage to see him instead of being alone. I told my husband that I was going to be alone and that I could not have any interruptions because I was going to be doing work. So, yes, it is not an accident. There is planning and lying going on - even when you know you are wrong, you continue and there is no excuse. Regarding counseling, we are supposed to go to a group session for a couple of hours then we go to the individual couples session. I talked to my husband tonight and we are both hoping that we can get some help - at least for the time that we will be together. I'm hoping that it doesn't backfire and cause more problems - scary. My appt is not until Sept 25th so it's a while before we go.

08-29-2007, 05:39 AM	#18
QqJamxqP Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 517 Senior Member	Bree, you are right. When I cheated, I planned the day and time on which I got together with the om. I had an evening away from home planned already and took advantage to see him instead of being alone. I told my husband that I was going to be alone and that I could not have any interruptions because I was going to be doing work. So, yes, it is not an accident. There is planning and lying going on - even when you know you are wrong, you continue and there is no excuse. Regarding counseling, we are supposed to go to a group session for a couple of hours then we go to the individual couples session. I talked to my husband tonight and we are both hoping that we can get some help - at least for the time that we will be together. I'm hoping that it doesn't backfire and cause more problems - scary. My appt is not until Sept 25th so it's a while before we go.
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